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I'm curious to learn more about the esoteric femme cock. I use the word esoteric because I don't know much about it. It's a mystery to me. Is it generally expressed in the same mechanical way as butch and trans cock? Is it a common sexual practice in your relationships? .....
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I'm not exactly sure. I'm not really a butch (lol) so I can't exactly compare the two experiences. My partners... most of them have asked for it, including the men, so it's been received well. Common? yeah, I'd say it was common. Often? depends on the person. It's pretty average and garden variety bog standard in terms of desire. It's never suprised me or taken me unawares. There's a ton of nerves in there (front and back) and it feels good to a hell of a lot of people. It's not necessarily a "feminising act" - I've screwed enough femmes, butches (of various qualitative ID), men and TG with mine to note the variety of differences in how masculine it can feel (not me, but them). Screwing a guy up the ass does not make him a girl. Niether does sliding a cock in his mouth. So, for me, screwing any aparature does not feminise automatically. It depends on who own the fissure. lol.
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I do think it comes with a stigma of judgements that either this community or the outsides community see as how do I say this: EWWWWWWWWWy. It's not commonly thought of as hot, as a matter of fact once I do try to open dialogue with peoples about it I can get reactions that go from: Eyes wide and mouth open agape The wrinkled up nose like you are smelling shit look The words: THAT AIN'T RIGHT There's no way I am letting anyone take away my masculinity That's gross Ewww why would a butch/ftm EVER want that done that's femme thing I could never be with a butch/ftm if they wanted their privates touched that would seem girly to me I could go on and on about the things a Femme has to hear about her Femme cock and on top of that what we have to hear about the people we fuck or who like to be fucked by Femme Cock, examples are: Ewww a butch in the streets femme in the sheets Wow you managed to flip them THAT AIN'T RIGHT, NO REAL BUTCH/FTM would want that done FUCK NO there's only one cock in THIS relationship Wow that is so girly that he/hy/she likes that That's QUEER! Femme Cock, that's just silly and awkward and LMAO! Femme Cock is not accepted here and out there like butch.ftm.man.guy.male.masculine.manly.boy. cock is it's not seen as right or normal. It's deemed as emasculating, flipping, girly turning, gross, not right, silly, awkward, less than, certainly not virile and strong like the above ID's are seen. I honestly feel that sexism and misogyny gets brought into our LGBTQ sex. Femme on Femme is HOT Butch on Butch - not so hot and what a waste Femme Cock pretty much the same, I can't tell you how many times I watch someone treat the person I am with as less than because of my cock and that's funny to me because femme's don't get treated as less than because of the butch/ftm cock that is penetrating them. Penetration is meant for women only, femmes, fags, queer, sissies, girly men, girly boys. Sound familiar? It should it's down right fucking heteronormative and that drips into our communities because for some unknown reason Femme Cock makes people uncomfy. We may not talk a lot of smut, and that's ok with me because some smut can't be handled.
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Cock is hot. End of story. Whether it's stemming from a femme, butch, FTM, Transguy, MTF, or any other flavor of identity and presentation in our community.
Now, I do admit that it's a little harder for me to take a pink, sparkly cock seriously. Thankfully, none of my partners have sported one. That's not to say that I wouldn't or couldn't watch someone else get fucked by one. By all means, the voyeur in me would be more than happy to watch someone get fucked by any appendage of any color, shape, style, etc. I just cannot break through the mindset that that would be something I could pleasure myself with and not something my partners would yield. That's my shit and I do own that. BUT I am certainly not going to tell someone how to run their fuck. If a pink, sparkly cock rocks their world, more power to them. If they like a blue dolphin up the ass, good for them. It's not my place to dictate someone else's pleasure. I'd go off on them for doing it to me and so, I offer the respect I seek from others. As far as being fucked by someone's cock minimizing masculinity and somehow increasing or creating femininity in someone, I call bullshit. If I can get praised for being a good girl for taking it all, I'm sure there are boys out there who can, do and/or have received the same praise. That doesn't make them any less boy or more girl. It makes them a very good boy who can take a lot of cock. Same for butches, FTMs, Transguys, and so on. What makes someone masculine or feminine is inside them. Well, granted, a cock would probably be inside them, but that's not what I mean. It's intrinsic to them. They know their flow and I think it's sad that such a small outside force could shake that within them. I don't connect with femme cock the way others do. I suppose my clit is my cock in certain situations, but it's not something that clicks in my head. No 'aha' moment there. Have I fucked someone with a cock? Yes. Was it magical or fantastic? Eh, not really. Did they get off? Yes. Did I? No. It was awkward for me, although I did get the hang of it pretty quickly. Would it be nice to watch someone suck me off? Sure. Every once in a blue moon, that appeals to me. Do I ever have the urge to really fuck someone? Yes, but it has absolutely nothing to do with my connection to femme cock and everything to do with my desire for vengeance and control and muddling through my childhood issues. I can't tell you the number of times I've had what equates to a prison yard trist in my head when I learn of particular cases of children being exploited and hurt. But like I said, that has absolutely nothing to do with a connection to my femme cock. It's strictly about me wanting to hurt those fuckers as much as or more than they hurt some kids. Tit for tat, if you will. Last edited by Gemme; 09-14-2011 at 10:59 AM. |
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I wanted to piggy back off Gemme's post for a second:
Pink glittery cocks are not what this particular femme uses I am pretty connected to mine and it fits my needs and my body. I do have a few other appendages that I like and use I have to say none have glitter or are colorful.
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So, are other body parts (tongue, fingers, etc) considered femme cock if it's used for penetration? Do you call it your cock or do you prefer other names? Side note: I used to live with one of my good friends who is butch, along with our girlfriends. My X was very vocal. If we engaged in any type of extracurricular activity our roommates were fully aware of it. Our sexual activities created a domino effect. Right after we finished, they would start up. Their love making sounds were always a little louder and lasted a little longer. Sometimes they would knock on our door to show us one of their sexual devices. It was a little weird. Years later, I was talking about it with my butch friend's X girlfriend. I made some comment like, "dang girl, you've got some pipes on you." She said you don't really know what was going on. I said, so enlighten me. She said that was Lori (butch friend) making all the sounds. She said it was always her servicing, fucking Lori. I asked why she would lie or give the impression that it was the other way around. She said Lori told her that she was not going to have Kannon (me) out do her. That's when I realized that this may be much common than I know. A lot of butches, FTM's, Trans, etc...don't want to cop to it because they fear others will think less of them. Personally, I don't think any differently of Lori or anyone else that gets serviced. I use serviced for lack of a better word. |
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Kannon, lol, I get my car serviced! You mean fucked, right?
Just checking....
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I don't view sex as a service unless it's in that specific dynamic. It's sex, and sex feels good, my phantom appendage will be attached when I am entering the person and I guess you could say it's an energy flow that is being passed on through the act of penetration. When I am entering it's all of me entering it's not tied specifically to whatever. I'm assuming it's like that for butches and ftm's it flows regardless of what one is using.
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Anya/Georgia for some of us, sex can be a service if the dynamic calls for it.
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They are doing all the physical work. And, I used it in the context of my x friend who was serviced in many other ways by her girlfriends. That's a long and laborious story. Getting fucked is another good, appropriate word. |
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I know you're not saying that I said this, but I honestly did mean to make mention of it somewhere and just plum forgot. Femme cock does not equate fancy, sparkly prettily colored cocks. They can be all sizes, shapes, colors, and styles. I've seen femme cocks larger and more bulbous than most of the butch cock I've been privy to. Quote:
I run into this misconception a lot when folks learn I'm a Stone femme. That's all. Oh, Anya/Georgia....when I read that, the very first image that came to mind was a femme being hoisted high on one of those thingies they have in the shop. lol |
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I have an incredible cock and I know how to use it and I am not afraid to pull it out and slam it on the table for all of you to look at and admire....
I have gotten positive remarks from butches, btw, that I am a femme who dons a cock and uses it freely without shame. I dont know if any of them would want a femme with a cock but at least they appreciated mine for me. I USE to be a femme who said "ewwwwwwwww" regarding femmes with cocks. Now I marvel at why it took me so long to claim this delightful part of sex. I LOVE how good I am with my cock. I am much better with mine than anyone has been with theirs with me. And I dont feel less femme because I have a cock. In fact, I feel MORE feminine, more alive, more powerful in my wiles.... mine does not have sparklies but by god now I am going to get me one with them! LOL. Pretty pretty....
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CIJS....
I fucking love this thread?!
It is educational, fun, sexy, hot-all the things that I love rolled into one!
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Femme Cock is hawt! Just sayin
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True. It wouldn't be too much fun or inspiring for me if my partner just sort of laid there without exerting some effort.
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I've used a gold disco cock. It was fun. I'm actually thinking of tying up my wife and using a dolphin and *making* her like it. Ha.
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If I ever decide to get one it must be a "gold disco" cock!
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