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Old 11-14-2010, 07:54 AM   #81
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when a roommate makes passive aggressive comments that are transphobic and decides his feelings are going to be hurt!!!

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When your cat has some "sharpies" (and I don't mean markers - at least for my cat anyway) and acts like you are trying to amputate her legs when you try to trim her claws.

Feline drama! Sheesh!
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When you have no control over things that you wish were so different
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you slide your bank card on the card machine at the store and these words pop up on the screen: Amount is $xxx.xx Is this okay?

NO it most definitely is not okay! The store owners knew it would not be okay when they set these prices!
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You save a coupon for months and months until you actually need it, for something like lemon pledge, and go to use it only to find that, it's a 50 cent off coupon when you buy 5 or more. WTF ??? Who in the world needs 5 cans of lemon pledge. Heck it took me 2 years to use the first can. That coupon isn't worth the paper it's written on.
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i hate it when i ivite a femme over to watch movies and she picks a chik flic that she has seen 20xs then sobs threw the whole thing.. ill pick the movies next time!
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When you wake up off and on throughout the night because you don't feel good and there is no one there to rub your head... Just when I think I have this crud beat...
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When you wake up off and on throughout the night because you don't feel good and there is no one there to rub your head... Just when I think I have this crud beat...
Just got over that.. found the source of the problem and now all better!
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i hate it when i ivite a femme over to watch movies and she picks a chik flic that she has seen 20xs then sobs threw the whole thing.. ill pick the movies next time!
It is a test, you know....

To see how sensitive you are.....
To see if you can figure out how to comfort her.....
To check your endurance for the expression of emotion....

There are many acceptable responses but,
offering to pick the movie next time isnt a good one.
Neither is falling asleep during the chik flick.
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.....when you work up a real good mad on before calling the credit card company,
to argue about the unfairness of the interest charges they award themselves simply because their accounting bill cycle straddles 2 paper billing cycles.......

and the sweet person on the other end of the phone agrees with you instantaneously and removes the charges from your bill?

Now what am I supposed to do with all this righteous indignation?!?
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When your ex won't let the past go and u "waste" an hour of your day reviewing the past. And she tells u that breakup is your fault. Not that "she" did anything wrong! Or that ur new person is evil, and doesn't care about you. Sorry I should have vented before posting. My bad!
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