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Old 09-15-2016, 12:45 PM   #3601
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wow (((((( clay ))))))) i'm soo soo sry ! prayers to u & and your family .
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Thanks everyone, for your warm messages & support! It has been a really rough few months for me...
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In a few days... it will be two years since Malus passed away. He will forever hold a special place in my heart... and I still miss him often.

Today I light a candle in his memory... and let a few more tears fall for this loss...
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Hey everyone, please light a candle and pray for one of my special needs dogs, Bo!!!!! He was throwing up all last night and this morning, and just had 5 teeth pulled last week. My spouse called me at the kennel and said I needed to come home and take him to the vet. I did, and they say he has pancreatitis!!!! They put him on IV therapy and he has to stay overnight. We are worried sick and praying for a speedy recovery.:cand le:
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My Grandmother just passed away...so if you could keep my family in your prayers, I would appreciate that.

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This morning, I see your candle light from the shadows for people on this thread my Brother. Now... I am lighting a strong one off of yours... Follow the Light my Brother and smile... For shining through the shadows of your life.. I will never forget your smile. May you Always shine that Light my Brother...and Always... follow.. The Light ....
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Please light a candle for my Mom, she fell last night and broke her arm. She lives with my sister in Pennsylvania. This is the third broken bone she has had in the last 7-8 years. First her hip, then an arm a couple years later, now her other arm.
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Lighting a candle for Alton may he transition in peace. Prayibg for his family who are all with him tonight
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Lighting a for Katzchen tonight. Earlier this evening her car was t-boned by another vehicle. She is at the trauma center with broken ribs, and fractured L4. I just spoke with her, and I know that good thoughts and prayers from the community would be appreciated.
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That's horrible. Thanks for letting us know, Jesse.

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thank you ((( Jesse )))....

I'm lucky to be alive. I'm heavily sedated and really lucky to have a team of awesome nursing staff and trauma physicians.

My boss came to see me, as well as my close family friend , C.

I will most likely spend a few months, recovering.
The car was demolished, fire fighters cut the car to get me out.
I am worried, but will focus on recovery.

Thank you for the prayers and good thoughts, friends....
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Oh, my! My thoughts are with you, Katzchen! Sending you speedy and full recovery energy. How frightening this must be for you! Holding you in the light!!
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(((((((((( Katzchen)))))))))))))) my prayers are with you, there is a god, and so glad your still with us ) I hope you have help when ur released. sweet dreams and rest while your in there. be brave !
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Today I discovered some dental work damage, I've got huge contusions and most likely going get huge black eyes (the window bag deployed, but the steering wheel bag did not).


I don't know how long it will take me to heal.
Nurses, doctors, ot/pt, social worker is helping me with my workers comp claim. I may go live with my close family friends for a few weeks, until I regain my mobility.

Still in the hospital.... thanks for surrounding me in positive energy and prayers of healing. I appreciate those gifts of care and concern. *thank you*
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Thank you everyone for the private get well wishes. I surely do appreciate the good energy and wellness vibes.

Today, I am making progress (I went poo), HR reached out to me today (yay!!), I'm still here at trauma acute care, just got medicated for the afternoon, I can walk with help, but my Transverse Process Fractures in my lower lumbar (1-4), will take time to heal. Sheer will and lots of comedy about my dire situation helps everyone (lol)...

Thank you Jesse for reaching out to me.... thanks to all of you for the quiet and lovely words of encouragement and support.

I'm eating well (salmon for dinner tonight).

I ordered eggs for breakfast, should be here soon.

I am going to slip into dream land (I need some sleep)....

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I sure hope you recover,sweet dreams..
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Thank you for all the sweet notes of support!

I was moved to a small nursing facility for two weeks of intense physical therapy, to help me regain more of my natural mobility.

The staff at the trauma center was so sweet to me, and sent me off earlier this afternoon.

My new room mate is an incredibly sweet 84 yo woman who is dying of lung cancer. Her nursing staff and doctor don't think she'll make it past spring. She listens to Henry Mancini, lots of beautiful songs I've always liked too.

Sooooooo, I'm lighting a candle for her tonight. And lighting mine again.... And lighting candles for others, too.

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