Working overnight shifts

betenoire · 09-26-2010, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by skeeter_01

One of the things that I loved on midnights was the comrodery..working midnights is like being in a special club!

Lol, none of that here. There is only one staff on nights at a time, so I am completely alone for those 8 hours.

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Originally Posted by Outlaw

Sunlight - as much as possible...but at least 30 minutes a day, possibly while walking so that you're getting sun directly and getting some execrcise in.

I think that is probably a huge part of my problem. I do still get in lots of walking (I don't drive) and I make sure I get in at least of hours worth of wandering a day - but the weather has been shitty lately so there hasn't been much sun. I notice that I'm actually WEEPY on days when the weather sucks, now.

The vitamin D pills I will look in to, since like I said I'm sure it's the lack of sunlight that is killing my soul.

Hopefully some of those suggestions work. I have to decide soon if I want to do full-time nights permanently or not - right now it's just a trial basis for me. I know that I SHOULD go ahead and take the position - because it's full-time and I'm sick to fucking death of being part-time. (it's hard to get a full-time job where I work...I know people who have been waiting for 15 years and are still part time). Just with how I'm feeling right now, it's hard to imagine doing this forever (or, until someone on days or afternoons retires - which won't be for another 5-10 years).

Another thing that I've been doing, to combat the feeling of isolation from my coworkers, is I've been showing up 30 minutes early (they're done their work by then, so I'm not interrupting anything) just to chat about work stuff. I also go to the staff meetings, even though the night staff aren't required to do so - just to keep in the loop. That's helped and I don't feel like I'm not part of the team, which is a feeling I was really worried about getting.

So, really, I guess the biggest thing I need to fix is my new exciting tendency to burst into tears if I can't find the socks that I feel like wearing or I slosh my coffee or insert-thing-that-is-not-supposed-to-be-a-big-deal-here.

How long have you been doing graveyards for, Outlaw?

Gayla · 09-26-2010, 03:26 PM

The vitamin d may help with the weepiness. It's not why I started taking it but I was pleasantly surprised at how much it helped the emotional stuff as well as the physical.

I did graveyards for a number of years and never really had issues. But, I had other people around and my partner at the time worked the same shift so it was very normal for us.

Blackout curtains in the bedroom and changing the voicemail message to say that I would not be answering the phone from xx to xx were the two things that helped the most.

princessbelle · 09-26-2010, 04:03 PM

Bless you cause I understand....

I worked 7p to 7a the first 3 years after I became a nurse and I honestly NEVER got really used to it. Some people adjust and adjust well. I remember this one nurse had worked it for 20 years...wild. But, I tend to agree with your statements. I also gained weight during that time and for me it was because at night in the hospital most of the work was done by midnight and that left the rest of the night for charting and eating!!! Also, working nights it is easy to get on the fast food track cause who has time to plan good dinner menus especially since our dinners are 4:00am.

If you think about it our biological clock tells us that when night comes it is time to lay down and rest. It is of course hard, for the most part, to get our homeostasis in sync. People that work graveyard have a tendency to have higher temperatures than those that don't and lots of things including reduced white cell count and harmone levels and this can add to a degree of depression.

The info that has been givin here on your thread are wonderful!!!! I don't think i can add much more.....I would recommend a complete physical including comprehensive blood work to make sure you are in great shape. It takes lots more energy and work to be on graveyard and takes a lot out on you....be good to yourself...don't foget to nurture yourself, eat right, exercise and laugh as much as possible. Cause, yourself is going through a hard transition and needs all the breaks it can get.

Good luck to you!!!!

AtLast · 09-26-2010, 04:33 PM

I never did well with night shifts or graveyards. Always had them with jobs that got me through college and summers in high school. Even as a young thing, I couldn't do it!

LOL... now that I am old and have the usual insomnia and sleep disturbances that come with age, I probably would be OK with these shifts! But, I'm retired!

Gemme · 09-26-2010, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by betenoire

Or 3rd shift, or graveyard shift. Whatever it is that you like to call it.

I've been working straight graveyards for a month now, and while I have had no difficulty adjusting my sleep schedule (I sleep just fine during the day, and I don't find myself tired at work or anything like that) it's been difficult for me in other ways.

I find that I am sad all the time now. I can't put my finger on what I'm sad about - but I am just incredibly bummed out.

I also have started putting on weight, although I am not eating any more / worse than what I had before. My body just seems to be confused in some way and has slowed my metabolism down, I guess?

And on top of that - I am lonely at work. I work in the field that I work in (I work for a pretty big non-profit that does home support for people with physical disabilities) because I wanted to have a job where I would be physically and socially active - but overnights I don't see much of the people that are the reason that I -have- that job to begin with. Mostly night shifts are about paperwork and maintaining the office. I'm only on-site in case someone in the apartment building needs something during the night - which they very rarely seem to do.

Does anybody else who works or has worked overnights have any suggestions for me (and for all of the other graveyard shift workers on this site) so that I can cope better?

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Originally Posted by betenoire

Lol, none of that here. There is only one staff on nights at a time, so I am completely alone for those 8 hours.

I think that is probably a huge part of my problem. I do still get in lots of walking (I don't drive) and I make sure I get in at least of hours worth of wandering a day - but the weather has been shitty lately so there hasn't been much sun. I notice that I'm actually WEEPY on days when the weather sucks, now.

The vitamin D pills I will look in to, since like I said I'm sure it's the lack of sunlight that is killing my soul.

Hopefully some of those suggestions work. I have to decide soon if I want to do full-time nights permanently or not - right now it's just a trial basis for me. I know that I SHOULD go ahead and take the position - because it's full-time and I'm sick to fucking death of being part-time. (it's hard to get a full-time job where I work...I know people who have been waiting for 15 years and are still part time). Just with how I'm feeling right now, it's hard to imagine doing this forever (or, until someone on days or afternoons retires - which won't be for another 5-10 years).

Another thing that I've been doing, to combat the feeling of isolation from my coworkers, is I've been showing up 30 minutes early (they're done their work by then, so I'm not interrupting anything) just to chat about work stuff. I also go to the staff meetings, even though the night staff aren't required to do so - just to keep in the loop. That's helped and I don't feel like I'm not part of the team, which is a feeling I was really worried about getting.

So, really, I guess the biggest thing I need to fix is my new exciting tendency to burst into tears if I can't find the socks that I feel like wearing or I slosh my coffee or insert-thing-that-is-not-supposed-to-be-a-big-deal-here.

How long have you been doing graveyards for, Outlaw?

I worked graveyards for a couple of years. As mentioned, it's hard on the body. It disrupts the body's natural arcadian rhythm, which throws all kinds of things out of whack too. You have gained weight because of rising cortisol levels. Even if you eat exactly the same things and do the exact same amount of exercise, chances are that you will still gain some weight. The lack of human interaction messes with you too.

I find that I get more emotional and depressed during the winter months...I have Seasonal Affective Disorder....and I found that I still felt low during summer months when I worked the graveyards. Apparently, not only do I have S.A.D., but I had reverse S.A.D.

http://www.nytimes.com/2002/08/13/he...ummer-sun.html

Fuck me with an ice pick. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't.

Out-can't offend anyone if I tried-law had some excellent points and suggestions. I don't know if I have anything to offer that's different, but I can definitely empathize with you. It sucks like Hoover on acid.

Blade · 09-26-2010, 04:44 PM

My best friend in college, her Dad worked a swing shift and that included 3rd shift. He said he felt one of the things that kept him from gaining weight was he always kept the same eating schedule. He at breakfast in the am, a sandwich or whatever for lunch at lunch time, be he at work or home, midday was lunch time and supper in the evenings. He said he didn't eat during the night on 3rds cuz he wouldn't be eating at 2 am if he was home. That made pretty good sense to me.

I agree with some of the others about keeping to your schedule on the days you are off work.

When I worked 2nd shift it was a 4:30pm to 1am job so I had all day to mess with my animals and garden or whatever. I'm very much an outside person. When I went to 1st shift, it was January and I was going to work in the dark and by the time I got home it was dark. It about drove me nuts. I finally asked my manager to please put me back to doing something outside, I didn't care if it was picking up cigarette butts, just please find me something to do outside. I think night shifters are a different breed, a special breed of their own, cuz not everyone can do it.

Sachita · 09-26-2010, 05:06 PM

I was having a hard time in winter when there are less daylight hours and not going outside as much. I would get depressed and low energy. I bought one of those seasonal lights you sit in front of. I do it every winter now while online for an hour a day and it worked great for me. I think I paid about 100 bucks for mine and it was really worth it.

Rockinonahigh · 09-26-2010, 07:10 PM

I worked 11-7 for years,I would get off work and go home get my kids off to school (we lived at my moms so I could work without worrying about child care at that hour or at all) I fed my horse on the way home,got the kids to school.Then I naped till noon then went to ride and care for the horse so I got back home right before the kids got home at 3:45pm,we did home work.But then dinner was done so I ate wich was the time my mom got home then I creahed till 10pm got up and did it alllll over again.I was hard but I did it,I was only 23 at the time,not too shure I would even atempt it now.I had a person bordeing her horse at my place so she fed mine when she fed hers at night.

betenoire · 09-26-2010, 08:04 PM

Thanks for the posts, people.

I just woke up, didn't sleep much today...I never do on Sundays. On the weekends me and Nick tend to do lots of "daytime things" which means I've had to sleep/live normal people hours on the weekends - I find it difficult to get in a nap on Sunday afternoons, since I tend to have slept through the night on Saturday. It's a drag that I keep having to switch back and forth like that - but I don't know that my relationship could survive if I insisted on sleeping during the day on the weekends. Seriously.

WingsOnFire · 09-26-2010, 08:32 PM

What a wonderful thread and wonderful answers. I wonder if this also affects partners of those who work 2nd or 3rd shift. I work day shift and my partner works 2nd shift. I find it difficult sometimes to deal with depression that creeps into my life. I have felt myself sinking into depression over the past couple of weeks and have been trying to figure out what is causing it. It dawned on me this weekend that the weather is changing, its getting cooler, and darker earlier.

I too suffer from S.A.D. and I know alot of it is because of that. I changed my lights at work to fluorescent lights and my house lights are fluorescent but I didn't think about the full spectrum lighting. Might have to check that out as well as the seasonal light. I think that will help alot as I am already feeling the effects of my S.A.D. as the weather is changing this week. Damon and I talked about small amounts of tanning in a tanning salon might help as well.

So, I think it might be a combination of personal struggle, S.A.D. and missing him at night. I do get to spend a small amount of time with him every night. He tucks me into bed and makes sure he helps me relax and fall asleep. I see him on his 2 days off (sometimes those are during the week so I see him at night) and on the weekends before and after work. Communication for us is the key to working through any emotions I may be dealing with. We text and talk every night and that helps alot as well.

So I think I will try the Vitamin D, seasonal light and tanning to see if that helps my S.A.D. so that I dont drive him nuts this winter

Thanks for this thread and the answers given so far. I love the support I see everywhere on this site.

Becca...

09-26-2010, 04:03 PM	#3
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09-26-2010, 04:33 PM	#4
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Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I worked 11-7 for years,I would get off work and go home get my kids off to school (we lived at my moms so I could work without worrying about child care at that hour or at all) I fed my horse on the way home,got the kids to school.Then I naped till noon then went to ride and care for the horse so I got back home right before the kids got home at 3:45pm,we did home work.But then dinner was done so I ate wich was the time my mom got home then I creahed till 10pm got up and did it alllll over again.I was hard but I did it,I was only 23 at the time,not too shure I would even atempt it now.I had a person bordeing her horse at my place so she fed mine when she fed hers at night.