How have you met the people you've been involved with romantically or sexually?

Ginger · 12-22-2012, 08:20 AM

I'm curious to know how people have met their partners, lovers, spouses or people they dated.

I'll go back like 20 years and answer the question for myself. I'm leaving out people I dated a little but didn't get involved with in any significant way.

Please start with the past and work toward the future, in your list.

We were in graduate school together
She used to come into the bookstore where I worked
I met her on a gay and lesbian dating website that's defunct now; I can't even remember what it was called.
I met him on a butch/femme website attached to the "dash" site
She was introduced to me by her Ex, a femme I met on a Trans/Soffa listserv
I met her on FABU East, Femmes and Butches East, a listserv.
We met at the Butch Femme Society meetings at the LGBT Center in NYC
I met her on Match.com.

As to "why" come up with such a list—it would be fun to discuss and hear people's opinions about how we meet our partners, but first I wanted to see the lists, if anyone is up for it.

Thanks,
Scout

12-22-2012, 08:20 AM	#1
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,310 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	How have you met the people you've been involved with romantically or sexually? I'm curious to know how people have met their partners, lovers, spouses or people they dated. I'll go back like 20 years and answer the question for myself. I'm leaving out people I dated a little but didn't get involved with in any significant way. Please start with the past and work toward the future, in your list. We were in graduate school together She used to come into the bookstore where I worked I met her on a gay and lesbian dating website that's defunct now; I can't even remember what it was called. I met him on a butch/femme website attached to the "dash" site She was introduced to me by her Ex, a femme I met on a Trans/Soffa listserv I met her on FABU East, Femmes and Butches East, a listserv. We met at the Butch Femme Society meetings at the LGBT Center in NYC I met her on Match.com. As to "why" come up with such a list—it would be fun to discuss and hear people's opinions about how we meet our partners, but first I wanted to see the lists, if anyone is up for it. Thanks, Scout