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Old 02-08-2011, 08:33 PM   #41
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in 5 yrs..actually in 50 months i should have my home paid off if not sooner.. i will hope to keep my health/weight under control. be traveling/sight seeing alot. lol and i hope within the next 5 years i will meet my match!
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Old 02-08-2011, 09:12 PM   #42
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In five years, I'll have a lot of debt paid off and be actively funding my retirement plan.

We should be ready to do some significant work on this house to bring it more up to date--kitchen, bathroom, screened porch. Till then, I dream!

I expect to see both of my daughters launched into their lives, happy, healthy, and successfully independent.

I will have celebrated ten years with my sweetie, four years happily married.

Whatever my job is, I will be working toward greater professionalism and responsibility. I may have finished my RN degree by then, and be working on the NP program. Or, I may have put that aside so I can focus on my dream job.

Both my honey and I will be in the best shape of our lives, entering the last part of our 50's (nearly 60) in good health and many years ahead.
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It's almost impossible to predict the future with any certainty. However, it's safe to say that I will:

1) most definitely be debt free

2) reduce or eliminate my blood pressure and diabetic meds

3) 100% raw food diet
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Hopefully in a loving relationship that I can be myself in and not hold back because she can't give me her all. And still friends with my ex-husband.
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Bump! I found this thread the other day and wanted to revive it. I don't know why it is in the break up group because it is a good subject.

In 5 years I really hope to be retired or planning to retire.



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Oh, good idea, great topic!

Five years from now, I want to be ....

1) living in a place that is not overcrowded, yet in close proximity to an interesting city, which affords an climate of arts, entertainment and cultural exploration;

2) enjoying an long term monogamous dating relationship with another person who is sane, has a great sense of humor, and has great problem solving abilities (etc);

3) to have an occupation which is satisfying and rewarding and keeps me busy as I grow older and provides enough income so I am independent financially on my own and can afford to relax when I want to relax (etc);

4) I desire all three things above for my two sons and daughter;

5) To remain in good health so that I can enjoy life, each and every day.
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Lets see. . .
mostly credit card debt free
3 month emergency fund
done (or very close to it) with my master's degree
modified my work life, or moved on to a position more suited, to the life I would actually enjoy living.
1 week in Florence, Italy
1 week in Bologna, Italy
continuing cultivate my relationships and my internal growth in life/spirituality
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