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Old 01-28-2020, 04:32 PM   #461
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someone who loves cozy as much as i do..holding hands..kissing..sharing a quiet evening at home


A lot of these similar traits can be found in those born under cancer, just saying..
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Exhaustion from good hard work or exercise gives me peace.
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Life isn't always the way we need or want it to be. I find a state of bliss daily .Many times it involves family around me or just my animals ~ usually both at the same time. Instilled scents w/ an image . sounds from music, to children in a playground laughing, to a hammer w/ a lawnmower in the back round: I can see the music or not knowing who is swinging that hammer ~ u feel the progress of a beautiful day w/ scented air of cut grass and honeysuckle : full of picturesque nature. Ocean breeze with a salty taste , peace ~ erases
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watching the woodpeckers from my window..they seem so happy pecking at the suet hanging from the feeder..i think i would love being a bird in my next life

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Detaching ... learned to use this as a coping skill early in life and it’s one of my go-to places for peace of mind.
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night-time driving.. with a clear sky, and maybe a full moon... or no moon at all.. in the middle of nowhere.....

just because the stars... are AMAZING!!!!
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listening to the rainstorm and thunder.... but still not liking the cold part of it

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Curling up with my old furbaby by my side...
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These days it's being home and sleeping in my own bed with the tv on and being with those I care about. It's better than visiting your hometown and nearly getting shot by gang members or going camping and almost becoming a 411 case..both,that recently happen to me.

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Lately, nothing. Things are more unsettled for me now than during the shut down.
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When my Sweetie surrounds me in his arms: I feel safe, loved and protected by his love for me, when I am nestled in his loving presence. To feel him stroking my hair while his hand is wrapped around my waist as I breathe with him, our exchange of affection (privately or in public or among our friends, brings peace to us both. ✨✨✨✨❤️✨✨✨✨
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