Question for everyone

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 02:41 PM

I was wondering how many of you believe in soulmates. that there is that one special person for everyone out there. that there is someone everyone is MEANT to be with. i'm kind of on the fence. just wanted to get opinions from others please and ty

AtLast · 09-19-2010, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetbutch26

I was wondering how many of you believe in soulmates. that there is that one special person for everyone out there. that there is someone everyone is MEANT to be with. i'm kind of on the fence. just wanted to get opinions from others please and ty

I do. However, I believe we can have more than one throughout life. Lovers do die and we might want to pursue a relationship after this.

Mister Bent · 09-19-2010, 02:52 PM

No.

Utter poppycock.

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

No.

Utter poppycock.

LoL makes me think of prince poppycock on america's got talent

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome

I do. However, I believe we can have more than one throughout life. Lovers do die and we might want to pursue a relationship after this.

very true. i've always felt that there is more then one person. even if the wrong one comes into your life it happened for a reason

WolfyOne · 09-19-2010, 02:55 PM

I used to think that, but as I age I don't anymore
It would be like saying forever and nothing, I mean nothing lasts forever

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

I used to think that, but as I age I don't anymore
It would be like saying forever and nothing, I mean nothing lasts forever

yes i know. but i was wondering if that whole "everything happens for a reason" is true

Jet · 09-19-2010, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

No.

Utter poppycock.

touche'........

princessbelle · 09-19-2010, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome

I do. However, I believe we can have more than one throughout life. Lovers do die and we might want to pursue a relationship after this.

I agree with AT...I believe you can have more than one. It is beautiful when you find a soul mate and it is seeing the glass as half full to know you may have another.

EnderD_503 · 09-19-2010, 03:36 PM

Nope, I don't believe in fate or soulmates. Of course, there are people in the world that a person will be most drawn to as far as interests, chemistry etc, but I don't see that as the result of fate/possessing a soulmate one was "meant" to be with.

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

I used to think that, but as I age I don't anymore
It would be like saying forever and nothing, I mean nothing lasts forever

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Originally Posted by EnderD_503

Nope, I don't believe in fate or soulmates. Of course, there are people in the world that a person will be most drawn to as far as interests, chemistry etc, but I don't see that as the result of fate/possessing a soulmate one was "meant" to be with.

ty end. i kind of agree with that. it is something i been reflecting on a lot lately. thank you for your answer

Tcountry · 09-19-2010, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetbutch26

yes i know. but i was wondering if that whole "everything happens for a reason" is true

Everything for sure happens for a reason...people come in and out of our lives when we need them. Not when we "want" them...painful sometimes but so true!

WolfyOne · 09-19-2010, 05:38 PM

What it all comes down to is an old saying, a reason, a season or a lifetime
It has nothing to do with fate or soulmates
You can turn it around any way you want or need it to fit

Corkey · 09-19-2010, 05:52 PM

Is there someone for everyone, yes. Is it the right one for you, perhaps, but only you will know when it happens.
In the meantime, have fun and date, date a lot, date often.
Good luck.

Ebon · 09-19-2010, 05:55 PM

She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Organicbutch

She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

i'll know she is the right one when i see stars if she bops me

Nawen · 09-19-2010, 05:59 PM

Nah.

Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection.
* not in a bad sense.

I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate.

For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad).

Hm, hope this made sense.

MaggieBluIze · 09-19-2010, 06:01 PM

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She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

It really should not take that OB
(you have been pushing that in my head for a while my friend) ...
And yes, unfortunately,
that is sometimes what it takes to get you guys to look our way
(not even trying to push and ask for an approach, just a look and we can take over from there, if needed).
*thinking I need to seriously make a trip to Home Depot*

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Nawen

Nah.

Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection.
* not in a bad sense.

I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate.

For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad).

Hm, hope this made sense.

it did

thank you much hun

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by MaggieBluIze

It really should not take that OB
(you have been pushing that in my head for a while my friend) ...
And yes, unfortunately,
that is sometimes what it takes to get you guys to look our way
(not even trying to push and ask for an approach, just a look and we can take over from there, if needed).
*thinking I need to seriously make a trip to Home Depot*

LoL let me just grab my jacket and keys and i'm on my way

09-19-2010, 02:41 PM	#1
sweetbutch26 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/stud/boi Preferred Pronoun?: mr/he :p Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Goldsboro NC Posts: 55 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 66 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1506	Question for everyone I was wondering how many of you believe in soulmates. that there is that one special person for everyone out there. that there is someone everyone is MEANT to be with. i'm kind of on the fence. just wanted to get opinions from others please and ty

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Mister Bent Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 2,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,151 Thanked 5,831 Times in 1,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	No. Utter poppycock. __________________ Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken

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WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I used to think that, but as I age I don't anymore It would be like saying forever and nothing, I mean nothing lasts forever __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

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WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	What it all comes down to is an old saying, a reason, a season or a lifetime It has nothing to do with fate or soulmates You can turn it around any way you want or need it to fit __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

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Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,299 Times in 6,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Is there someone for everyone, yes. Is it the right one for you, perhaps, but only you will know when it happens. In the meantime, have fun and date, date a lot, date often. Good luck. __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

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EnderD_503 Member How Do You Identify?: Queer, trans guy, butch Preferred Pronoun?: Male pronouns Relationship Status: Relationship Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 1,329 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,090 Thanked 3,907 Times in 1,032 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Nope, I don't believe in fate or soulmates. Of course, there are people in the world that a person will be most drawn to as far as interests, chemistry etc, but I don't see that as the result of fate/possessing a soulmate one was "meant" to be with.

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Ebon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: With my souls eyes. Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: lol Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Here Posts: 3,476 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,524 Thanked 11,145 Times in 2,755 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her. __________________ In Lak'ech Ala K'in I'm a Soul Rebel http://wannabereverend.wordpress.com/ Spirituality is not a belief system or ideology, it is the surrender of one's ego to the infinite wisdom and knowledge that is the universe.

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Nawen Junior Member How Do You Identify?: ♪ Preferred Pronoun?: Name, please, English is not my language :) . Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 62 Thanked 37 Times in 17 Posts Rep Power: 478	Nah. Relationships are work* and believing in 'The One' would make me give up on anything that is 'less than' some imaginary perfection. * not in a bad sense. I do believe there are people we click with more than with others based on interest, views on life and similiar things... and those are the people that are worth working on the relationship with and making each of us the other person's soulmate. For me it's tied with that 'I can't control your actions, I can only control my reactions to them' - it's not about the other person being this or that, it's about me viewing those qualities as good (or bad). Hm, hope this made sense.