04-13-2011, 11:24 PM | #21 |
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04-14-2011, 11:34 AM | #22 |
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04-14-2011, 07:39 PM | #23 |
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I'm in a commited relationship with Ebon. We live together and have discussed, at length, our plans for our joint future together.
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04-14-2011, 07:58 PM | #26 |
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I don't think I've ever been out of the stockroom and on the shelf!
Seriously, I suppose I'm "on the market", but not seeking. I'm busy with school, my family, and a lot of personal issues right now. However, I'd make time for the right one. "Off the market" within a relationship is when both people (or more) involved agree that it's an exclusive relationship.
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04-14-2011, 08:03 PM | #27 |
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Sounds kinky. You should definitely get a higher bid for that.
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04-14-2011, 08:17 PM | #28 |
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I am the market.
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04-14-2011, 08:47 PM | #29 |
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I've been off the market since 1996, seriously....and for MANY years, I was not interested in or even thought about dating or relationships. I didn't want a "revolving door" in my son's life; raising him without more upset from him getting attached to someone who might not be around for long, or might not accept him as a "package deal" was very important to me. A revolving door in a child's life can do much harm. I can prove that...
I stayed off the market for several reasons, that being the most important to me.... Then, once he was out of the house on his own, when I did decided to date "mom's neighbor" in the Summer of 2007 (a Soft Butch I'd had a minor crush on for 5 years) and come out at the same time.... I still considered myself off the market, but not because I was dating. (WOW!! 11+ years without "any"! no wonder I had a crush on Min!) When I was/am single: I'm off the market because dating or the possibility of a relationship happens on my terms.... and I don't go looking for "it", nor am I open to "propositions". I don't like being pursued or someone being "aggressive" with their interest in dating me or other sexual attractions....(I certainly don't like an aggressor...it sends me into a "bad zone"...)....I am a loner, most often. I was never comfortable in the "dating scene" or actively pursuing a "mate" and I'm NEVER comfortable with someone "coming on to me"....it's just not in my comfort zone. If/when I decide to become involved with someone, I am off the market... not solely because of monogamy, but because it has more to do with it takes a great deal of effort and a VERY special "place" for me to consider or be actively involved and/or intimate with any individual. Sharing that level of intimacy for me and of me is a VERY special place. I haven't found a comfort zone that allows me to share that place with "just anyone" that might peek my interest. ...I have dated some since 2007, but I must be in MY comfort zone to share "my all". Just because I date, look around or play the field, does not mean to me that I am "on the market".... maybe dating means to me that I am trying to see where that person or situation fits in "my zone"? If a person does not appreciate, respect or honor my "special place" ... then I become mentally and sometimes physically off the market.... I might share intimate things/times with them.... but I become guarded and refuse to "give my all"; therefore, parts of me are off the market.
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04-14-2011, 08:48 PM | #30 |
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When I'm in a relationship, I'm off the market. If we both agree to be exclusive then it should be no less of a commitment than if we are married. For me, marriage (legal or in the heart) is about far more than exclusivity.
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Although i am in service and have to ask permission, i would be looking to play with others if i felt well and were less busy. i like playing with others, people i have known a long time and new people. It is the spice of life. Or one of them. i am truly poly. i can safely say that i would never enter an exclusive relationship. For me, health and happiness are found in polyamory.
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04-15-2011, 06:08 AM | #32 |
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I am very happily long-term-dating someone but we have a relationship with negotiated non-monogamy, so I am not for sale on the market but I am for rent, and sometimes, if your lucky, you get a 2 for 1 bonus. (hubba hubba)
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04-15-2011, 06:31 PM | #33 |
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My gf and I have agreed to an exlusive relationship, which makes me OFF the market, just as if we were married. And I wouldn't be tempted by the $1,000,000 offer from someone else...and yes, we've talked about that!
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05-28-2011, 11:40 PM | #34 |
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i don't use on/off the market to describe my status. Either i'm looking/open to dating or not. if i'm taking time for myself or i'm in a committed and/or monogamous relationship, then i'm not looking/open to dating.
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