11-29-2012, 12:39 AM | #81 |
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Pursued. I joke, play and flirt a lot, so when someone really I wouldn't catch it. They have to come after me and get my attention.
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I am definitely the most comfortable being the prey. I like to be pursued and I am good at letting the person know that I'm interested. I think it is just part of my nature because I like when the other person is more in charge, if that makes sense.
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I tend to follow a sequence and it's somewhat like a dance:
First, I am the hunter (I seek her out and make overtures), Second, I briefly become prey (She must respond with a corresponding, yet ever so feminine, pursuit of me), And last, I become the hunter again (I charge in for the "kill"). Overall, I am the hunter - it feels natural to me.
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05-06-2013, 06:39 AM | #84 |
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If I'm really interested I'm most definitely the hunter however I also tend to be a 2x4 Ftm.. So if you're interested in me, unless you're really clear about it I will just think you're being friendly.
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05-06-2013, 07:23 AM | #85 |
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Prey... though looking butch and being very submissive can be confusing for onlookers. i guess it is a good thing i am owned.
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Been a hunter most of my life,but I do recall that one time in '85 where they put a collar around my neck,but even then it was I who found and persued them.I like to persue Femmes but i've notice i'm being hunted by a married woman lately..is it the season? or what??.I couldn't believe the words coming out of my mouth when I said Stop.And oh gawd she is soo hot.Thing is I see her once a week where she works and she lives very near...do you know how dangerous that could be.She is a huge flirt and the last time we met she touched me and when I told her to stop she gives me this fucking goes straight to my clit evil laugh.Damnit
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Hmn. Hard. Dominant personality mixed with submissive sexuality. I like being pursued but will make it real clear if someone is pushing too hard. I prefer relaxed, easy going, genuine interest, rather than being chased. I like mild initiation and patience.
I react very poorly to being pushed. But I'm pretty independent. I'm not a single tackle kind of gal. I won't initiate contact. I've learned not to. I've had so many bad experiences with initiating contact that it will take me months of interaction for me to initiate for a change. I've learned that if *I* initiate, people lose interest. They've succeeded. They have won. And they lose interest. So I have to trust the person isn't like that before I try. I may be open and frank about who I am, what I think, but I'm emotionally reserved. So it does take patience. And it will take months, not weeks, to get me to emotionally respond in a deeper way. I saw someone recently bitching that someone she was dating hadn't committed after three months and should she drop her and go for someone else who had expressed interest. The butch is my age. These are the reasons I don't commit quickly. People like that. So it's not hunting me... It's hand feeding something feral till it trusts enough to stay longer and longer in your presence and I decide to stay. They loyalty payback is massive, but heaps of patience needed. |
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I could never be the hunter, ever. I dont have that type of confidence. And to be honest if someone was to choose to pursue me, not that I`m available but if I was, they would have to be prepared to play a very long and patient game. I woudnt want to be wooed and romanced, Hy would just have to be there, be around, let me observe, who Hy was, how Hy was and how Hy conducted hymself, then maybe I would allow myself to be pursued.
I myself, love people, I like to chat, interact, share and learn. Have a little fun. I think sometimes my friendliness can be misinterpreted as the wrong type of interest in a person. HHmm..thats something I need to be more aware of. Daisy |
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It would be a great honor if I were persued by either one of you..just saying.
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I see myself as the Female Wolf, under the lamb costume disguised as Red Riding Hood. Ya, that about covers it.
LoL, no not the prey type, Have yet to meet Alpha Wolf under the baby goat costume disguised as Little Boy Blue..... maybe some day. Hope springs eternal. |
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Introverted prey and like the art of seduction.
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I like to be the prey but I can flirt and drop signals.
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definitively a prey ^^ but not an easy one
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I flirt a lot but I rarely pursue at first. If the woman lets me know she is interested then I do pursue (gently). Always a gentlewoman with the ladies and most appreciate that.
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I have been the initiator in nearly every relationship I have had. I'm an introvert with a shy streak, but I always have to be the initiator.
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I am the hunter.
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I can easily walk in between the lines of both. The hunt can turn into the prey...I suppose it's the dance dynamics of Butch/Femme.
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Variable. After much consideration, that's the only sensible thing I can say without a long digression into why!
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mostly I smile and dart glances and hope the other person starts a conversation...
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