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Have any of you gentleman dated a bisexual woman? One that sleeps with both men and women but is monogamous when in a relationship? If so, how did it go?
By men I mean CIS gendered males.
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I have not dated since I started transitioning. My preference would still be to date a femme. At this point, a femme who is attracted to trans men.
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Yes. Yes. From great dates to three year long relationships, I have dated several bisexual women. They went well in several different areas, I have no regrets.
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Thank you Dapper and Liam for your feedback!
Me and my Lady haven't had much issues with her sexuality but I think she gets a tad confused about me being trans and what it all entails, trying to educate someone who loves you is kinda hard, IMO.
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This book gives a pretty good overview and is pretty cheap on Amazon: https://play.google.com/store/books/...AE3g&gclsrc=ds The other thing to get across to her is that gender is fluid for a lot of trans people. Not everyone is binary, male or female. So, you have to learn about your specific trans partner, trans friend, etc. Has she always only dated cis females? How does she identify?
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Unless she tells you she needs to be able to relate to both sexes intimately in order to be fulfilled, I don't see why you would concern yourself with her being able to be monogamous.
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She knows I won't be with any men sexually, etc. But she has been saying things about her wanting me to participate in certain sexual deals that include other women and cis males, which I do not like one bit and have told her this.
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The best advice I can give you is to never compromise yourself. If having sex with other people or agreeing to your partner having sex with other people, is not a fit for you, this may not be the relationship for you. Agreeing to something that isn't a fit for you could only be damaging to you and to the relationship. I would suggest that you start a new thread in the SEX BDSM KINK forum here. I think that is the best place to get other's views, thoughts, advice, and experience on bringing people into the bedroom. Good luck.
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Well she ID's as bisexual so that is why I was asking the guys but I went off in a rant, sorry. But yeah I might have to go to those threads but I am not one to share or bring others into the bedroom to just "spice things up" and she has mainly said these things when we are both drunk out of our brains, so I truly don't know how to take it.
Thanks for the input y'all.
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Started T 125mg IM every other week for gender dysphoria. When have folks on this thread started to notice results? Know it's a small dose, but the doc who has a clinical interest in treating trans folk doesn't seem willing to increase the T. When I asked her, she claimed to be uncomfortable increasing the dose due to the fact that I smoke cigarettes. Does this sound like an excuse to anyone? Any advice would be helpful expect changing docs. She the only one in a 50 mile radius whose clinical interest is in transgender services.
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But, yes, you are not supposed to be on testosterone if you smoke. But, then again, we don't give natal males testosterone blockers because they smoke, do we? I suspect you doctor is just uncomfortable prescribing hormones. For whatever reason, she is agreeable to it. If she is going to prescribe the treatment, she needs to get some training on the proper care of the transgender patient. Personally, I would print out the Endocrine guidelines and bring them to her. 'Course that may piss her off, lol. https://academic.oup.com/jcem/articl...0/jc.2009-0345 http://www.bumc.bu.edu/endo/clinics/...ne/guidelines/
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Sounds like you have a good doctor to me. I take 40mg once a week. Not everyone is the same. Not everyone achieves the same results, in the same amount of time. I believe your doctor is following the correct protocol.
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.5ml is the most common dose. Most often people are even started at that dose. .25 (50mg) is seen as a half dose within the trans medical community. There are people within that range, I hear you saying that you take 40mg, which is a tiny bit less. But, .125ml? No, that is not a starting dose according to Endocrine guidelines. There is no way he is up to even low male T levels on that dose. This doctor needs to at least be up front with him and tell him why she wants him on a dose that is not indicated for cross sex hormone treatment for the female to male transition. He needs to know if she even knows the guidelines. cathexis, do you still have your ovaries?
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Had told her that I was genderqueer, and that a higher level of T improved me body and mind. She diagnosed me with "gender dysphoria," and ordered T at this dose. I am concerned and confused. Anyone with any ideas why?
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All I know, is that my doctor was relieved that I was not a smoker, and would have been hesitant to even prescribe testosterone for me, if I were.
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