Instant Turn-Offs - Page 14

Orema · 10-30-2020, 09:20 AM

People who don't vote.

Stone-Butch · 10-30-2020, 12:23 PM

I will not venture to say after the last fiasco I went through for speaking my mind but there are 3 major things I do not like and would not date a woman who is or does any one of them. Not picky, just lots of experience.

~ocean · 10-30-2020, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Stone-Butch

I will not venture to say after the last fiasco I went through for speaking my mind but there are 3 major things I do not like and would not date a woman who is or does any one of them. Not picky, just lots of experience.

Stone the best part of being confident in ourselves is we KNOW what we want ~ settling is for house foundations, not for life lol lol ~ freedom of speech don't forget ! when you speak your mind ~ you just taught someone else your truth , capish ?

Stone-Butch · 10-30-2020, 08:36 PM

ocean I know what you are saying, however I KNOW I will be chastised in a serious manner and probably put on time out once again so I can't. I can just say I do have them and so I can only speak for my personal self the fact I have instant turnoffs.

PlatinumPearl · 08-17-2022, 09:25 PM

Weak, cowardly and deceitful people/person.

Kätzchen · 08-17-2022, 09:38 PM

Smoking cigarettes or smoking anything. Smoking can and will kill you.

Such a huge turn off.

Im glad i have been smoke free since June 6th. Ive had many stressful events happen since i quit but i never once wanted to light up and smoke. That was a very bad, unhealthy habit i have had for years and im so glad i finally saw the light.

Canela · 08-17-2022, 11:08 PM

Those who drink yet lie about it. Just own your stuff man…

Stone-Butch · 08-18-2022, 05:26 PM

When going on a first date to a party let your date know if you are a "drug user socially". Works both ways. No surprises.

kittygrrl · 08-19-2022, 01:15 PM

Boundaries...when you step on/over them(on purpose)

Reach *BANNED* · 08-19-2022, 01:57 PM

Disrespect and rudeness in any form.. shown to Me.. or to anyone else.

Bèsame* · 08-19-2022, 04:16 PM

ankle biters

VintageFemme · 08-19-2022, 04:47 PM

Arrogance and conversely, being timid or shy.

Reach *BANNED* · 08-19-2022, 05:33 PM

People that think that others are beneath them - that the world revolves around them - and in general they think you are "out of their league". In a word: narcissist.

JDeere · 08-20-2022, 01:24 AM

tobacco smokers, 420 is fine but only medical
poor hygiene
no home training, ie how to wash dishes by hand, keep the house clean, et al...
dirty smells of any kind, dog, cat, human, you get the idea

Stone-Butch · 08-20-2022, 08:04 PM

When you are being yourself and she says "It's ok I can open my own door" LOL. Spoiled my whole dinner before we ate. Our first and last date.

Reach *BANNED* · 08-25-2022, 02:06 PM

When you are on a date, and you catch that person making side glances (or even straight out looks) that are suggestive to another.

Also, when your date monopolizes the conversation- or even worse just talks about herself the whole date.

cathexis · 08-27-2022, 12:57 AM

You're out on a date with someone whom you know lives with others. There are 3 separate full-bathrooms in this large four or five-bedroom home where several people of different sexes, genders, and orientations live.

The date and I get hot, heavy, gooey, and messy. Toward the end of the date, I head for the nearest bath to clean up a bit before getting dressed.

Right before sitting down, I notice something sitting on the lid top. I decided to look closer at the item. There, in plain sight, sitting on an otherwise clean toilet tank lid is a used and leaking condom. The nasty guy could have put a knot in it, put it in the trash, or flushed it. No, he's gotta be gross setting it on the lid where many of us would have shells, dop. kit, kleenex, tp, or pick any other suitable item. I had to stop my clean-up and move to one of the other washrooms. It was years (maybe 40 plus) ago, but it's nothing I'll probably ever forget.

Bèsame* · 08-28-2022, 07:17 AM

Don't you dare try to control me. I'll be out of there in a min!

Just control as I'm being submissive😉

Kätzchen · 10-20-2023, 05:10 PM

People who have an incessant need for personal attention … in all ways, shape or form. A huge big red flag, if you ask me.

Stone-Butch · 10-20-2023, 09:51 PM

Going to dinner and the person you invited can't get her face away from her cell phone. Happened once. I got tired of it and just picked up my cutlery and my plate of food and walked to an empty table. First and last.

10-30-2020, 12:23 PM	#262
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,198 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,175 Thanked 8,460 Times in 2,631 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Instant turnoffs I will not venture to say after the last fiasco I went through for speaking my mind but there are 3 major things I do not like and would not date a woman who is or does any one of them. Not picky, just lots of experience.

10-30-2020, 08:36 PM	#264
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,198 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,175 Thanked 8,460 Times in 2,631 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Instant turnoffs ocean I know what you are saying, however I KNOW I will be chastised in a serious manner and probably put on time out once again so I can't. I can just say I do have them and so I can only speak for my personal self the fact I have instant turnoffs.

08-17-2022, 09:25 PM	#265
PlatinumPearl Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Human Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Canada Posts: 1,116 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 948 Thanked 2,354 Times in 863 Posts Rep Power: 21474844	Instant Turn-Offs Weak, cowardly and deceitful people/person.

08-17-2022, 09:38 PM	#266
Kätzchen Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Monogamously Attached to my boyfriend and future husband. Join Date: May 2010 Location: He’s usually with me unless I am with Him. Posts: 15,084 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,003 Thanked 31,991 Times in 9,939 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Smoking cigarettes or smoking anything. Smoking can and will kill you. Such a huge turn off. Im glad i have been smoke free since June 6th. Ive had many stressful events happen since i quit but i never once wanted to light up and smoke. That was a very bad, unhealthy habit i have had for years and im so glad i finally saw the light. __________________ Kätzchen _____ ______

08-17-2022, 11:08 PM	#267
Canela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babe, she, her, ella Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Antonio Posts: 2,374 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,594 Thanked 6,524 Times in 1,697 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Those who drink yet lie about it. Just own your stuff man… __________________ . . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

10-30-2020, 09:20 AM	#261
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, shawty Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,022 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,070 Thanked 34,088 Times in 8,590 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	People who don't vote.

08-18-2022, 05:26 PM	#268
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,198 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,175 Thanked 8,460 Times in 2,631 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Instant Turn Offs When going on a first date to a party let your date know if you are a "drug user socially". Works both ways. No surprises.

08-19-2022, 01:15 PM	#269
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: a few laughs Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the real Posts: 8,802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,381 Thanked 21,371 Times in 6,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Boundaries...when you step on/over them(on purpose) __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

08-19-2022, 01:57 PM	#270
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	Disrespect and rudeness in any form.. shown to Me.. or to anyone else.

08-19-2022, 04:16 PM	#271
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: ☀️☀️☀️ Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 14,770 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28,402 Thanked 39,525 Times in 10,204 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	ankle biters __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

08-19-2022, 04:47 PM	#272
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,640 Times in 1,657 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Arrogance and conversely, being timid or shy. __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

08-19-2022, 05:33 PM	#273
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	People that think that others are beneath them - that the world revolves around them - and in general they think you are "out of their league". In a word: narcissist.

08-20-2022, 01:24 AM	#274
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	tobacco smokers, 420 is fine but only medical poor hygiene no home training, ie how to wash dishes by hand, keep the house clean, et al... dirty smells of any kind, dog, cat, human, you get the idea __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

08-20-2022, 08:04 PM	#275
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,198 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,175 Thanked 8,460 Times in 2,631 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Instant Turn-offs. When you are being yourself and she says "It's ok I can open my own door" LOL. Spoiled my whole dinner before we ate. Our first and last date.

08-25-2022, 02:06 PM	#276
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	When you are on a date, and you catch that person making side glances (or even straight out looks) that are suggestive to another. Also, when your date monopolizes the conversation- or even worse just talks about herself the whole date.

08-27-2022, 12:57 AM	#277
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,710 Times in 1,603 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	You're out on a date with someone whom you know lives with others. There are 3 separate full-bathrooms in this large four or five-bedroom home where several people of different sexes, genders, and orientations live. The date and I get hot, heavy, gooey, and messy. Toward the end of the date, I head for the nearest bath to clean up a bit before getting dressed. Right before sitting down, I notice something sitting on the lid top. I decided to look closer at the item. There, in plain sight, sitting on an otherwise clean toilet tank lid is a used and leaking condom. The nasty guy could have put a knot in it, put it in the trash, or flushed it. No, he's gotta be gross setting it on the lid where many of us would have shells, dop. kit, kleenex, tp, or pick any other suitable item. I had to stop my clean-up and move to one of the other washrooms. It was years (maybe 40 plus) ago, but it's nothing I'll probably ever forget. __________________ Insurrection is an art, and like all arts has its own laws. -----Leon Trotsky

08-28-2022, 07:17 AM	#278
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: ☀️☀️☀️ Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 14,770 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28,402 Thanked 39,525 Times in 10,204 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Don't you dare try to control me. I'll be out of there in a min! Just control as I'm being submissive😉 __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

10-20-2023, 05:10 PM	#279
Kätzchen Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Monogamously Attached to my boyfriend and future husband. Join Date: May 2010 Location: He’s usually with me unless I am with Him. Posts: 15,084 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,003 Thanked 31,991 Times in 9,939 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Instant Turnoff … People who have an incessant need for personal attention … in all ways, shape or form. A huge big red flag, if you ask me. __________________ Kätzchen _____ ______

10-20-2023, 09:51 PM	#280
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,198 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,175 Thanked 8,460 Times in 2,631 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Instant Turn-Offs Going to dinner and the person you invited can't get her face away from her cell phone. Happened once. I got tired of it and just picked up my cutlery and my plate of food and walked to an empty table. First and last.