The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 119

LadyRain · 12-11-2011, 12:05 PM

SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!!

rustedrims · 12-11-2011, 03:39 PM

Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here..

Rain and Blue..
I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts..

Ruthie..
Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??..

Clay..
Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??..

Gina..
Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!..

s..

morningstar55 · 12-11-2011, 03:51 PM

just peeking in.. .. guess i have some catching up to do.. heh...
nap time here.. then heading to nashville land.... yayy..
**yawwnnn**

Electrocell · 12-11-2011, 10:09 PM

We are still stuck in AL waiting on load. 3 hrs of detention time now.

Gina · 12-12-2011, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by rustedrims

Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here..

Rain and Blue..
I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts..

Ruthie..
Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??..

Clay..
Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??..

Gina..
Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!..

s..

Rusted - now the glitter is all over the place - but ya know Sparky looks good in antlers and glitter...You know I have no love for the *Bungles* and I know you prefer them over the Browns - but other teams are doing pretty good..(Not the Chiefs - did you see the way the Jets smashed them??) Let it rain let it rain let it rain...weather update for you...

blueeyes226_l · 12-12-2011, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Rain

SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!!

Hey Rain,
I wish you the very best in all of this. I don't even know what to do with my "kid" and her hubbie is a jurk. Any was sendinhg u a hug.

blueeyes226_l · 12-12-2011, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta

I am so sorry what is happening with your daughter . We as a parents should be enjoying are children and grandchildren . Hopefully one day she realizes that everything you teach her will surfaces and be daughter you raised . It's very painful and trust me I understand .

I am wishing you the best .

sending you a cyber hugs

Vlasta

It is hard do to my Mom isn't to get up set. Shelly,my daughter,called he two times but didn't talk to me. I enjoyed my daughter when she was little. I rember those day. They would good. I could tell her things about the family but,I think it would hurt her and distory her. I think her hubbie is controling her from what I seen when they was here. I don't like him at all. I don't trust him. My mother found out today ibehind 1 eye she has a blood clot the othere eye has a groth. so,I don't know what all is going on.~~~~

blueeyes226_l · 12-12-2011, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

Hi All! I'm 46 yo. This last year has really aged me. Life is very unfair, and unkind, but I am surviving.

I will definitely be back to see my friends who are in the same boat.

Namaste,
Andrew

This year has aged me as well. This kidney stuff has aged me as well as my daughter is for the birds and I wish the birds would take it back...lol

blueeyes226_l · 12-17-2011, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

This year has aged me as well. This kidney stuff has aged me as well as my daughter is for the birds and I wish the birds would take it back...lol

Hey,
I was checking in to see how you all was. Has any one on here has lived with your Mom and see changes in her-rembering-repeeting things and seeing her go down hill? I think one bad place is she notice it her self. Now she has too many red blood cells and has to go to the Hospital and have blood taken out of her. It just washes her right out like a lemp dish rag. She has to go Monday. Then she has to see the Dr. on tuesday.
the Dr. told my Mom she has 5 to 7 years if she takes good care of her self. The red blood cells change in to Loukemia.(mispelled)The Dr. she has is a back door Dr. Personaly I don't care for him.Meaning he is a100%jurk. I love my Mom very much. Its hard seeing these changes. I know other people have gone through this. You know if I had 6 wishes i would wish for 1.every one would have food 2.every one would have drinks and every 3.one would be happy and 4.us GLBT people would be exsepted and 5. everyone would know they are loved. 6. no one would be sick.
A gal we use to have here as a fresh air kid she emailed me today and said she should come up to see every one befor any one passes away. The last time she said that she came up and the next day after she left my Dad died.
(Mom has been saying she will not be here next year. She has said this befor I ever got this email from her.) I know I "talk " alot on here but,I really don't have any one to talk to about things. My Mom has had one heck of a life-her Mom died when she was 7 years old. My Mom dad was a drunk and she marryed a drunk-my Dad. She has worked all of her life. He would beat her and so on. I wish I could make the remander of Moms life a happy one. I don't cry around her. I walk off to some othere room or go out side and yell at God.
There are many things I just don't understand.
Thanks my friends for reading this. I hope this dosen't bring any one down. I do care about the people here.

Electrocell · 12-17-2011, 05:56 PM

Want to wish everyone a Happy Holidays. Barb and I are going to my families Christmas party tonight , then back out on the road tomorrow so we can get her home for Christmas with her family.

ruthie14 · 12-20-2011, 09:26 PM

Hey blue... I live with my mom now. She is 72. Doing quite well for 72 but the signs that things are happening are there. I see it in her eyes when she knows. For now she has a boyfriend she goes to see 2x's a week, does volunteer work and keeps the house clean and the leaves raked and the lawn mowed (try to stop her and she kill you with her eyes.)

Hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas!
Ruthie

blueeyes226_l · 12-21-2011, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Hey blue... I live with my mom now. She is 72. Doing quite well for 72 but the signs that things are happening are there. I see it in her eyes when she knows. For now she has a boyfriend she goes to see 2x's a week, does volunteer work and keeps the house clean and the leaves raked and the lawn mowed (try to stop her and she kill you with her eyes.)

Hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas!
Ruthie

I see it in my Moms eyes the pain she has and she knows she might not be here. Her Dr. has ordered her a walker with wheels and co2 at night and during the day when she needs it. Ruthie,I know how hard it is to see a love one go down hill. Its heart renching.

To everyone have a very Merry Christmass and a blessed 2012

ruthie14 · 12-25-2011, 08:03 AM

Merry Christmas Everyone!

LadyRain · 12-29-2011, 09:40 AM

We still have my grandaughter with us.We have decided to get gardianship. Have all the paperwork, and a lawyer. Crazy thing is her mom wants her to come back and be put into a foster home. We spent Christmas in Washington Dc with my patners family, it was wonderful having the girl with us. My partner said, "I feel like this is the first time I am bringing "my family" home for Christmas.

Sunny · 12-29-2011, 10:02 AM

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011.

nycbutch · 12-29-2011, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Sunny

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011.

couldn't have said it better myself, Sunny!!! Wishing you all the best, my friend!!!

Jay

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 12-29-2011, 11:59 AM

Sending out my best wishes to everyone too!

I need to join in and follow more closely the notes in this thread especially. In this new year I am about to become one of the "and overs", leaving my 50's behind. It is a scary thing for me right now, even though I TELL people it is only a number. In truth, that "only a number" is downright terrifying! I truly don't KNOW what I should expect. Maybe with help from you all, I can let go with that need for expectations and just make my OWN path and picture.

Maybe I can be the one to set a new example of what 60 might look like!

clay · 12-29-2011, 04:11 PM

c'mon gorgeous....I will walk in friendship along with you..I may be "over" BUT I can run circles.....jus sayin...and I only get BETTER with age...as will you!! Definitley smoking'er...wink...welcome..let go and relax and enjoy...k?

Gina · 12-29-2011, 08:11 PM

Happy 2012 everyone!!!

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 12-29-2011, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

c'mon gorgeous....I will walk in friendship along with you..I may be "over" BUT I can run circles.....jus sayin...and I only get BETTER with age...as will you!! Definitley smoking'er...wink...welcome..let go and relax and enjoy...k?

Clay, you are a dear friend, and I am SO very glad you are in my life! (glad to see you back home and posting again!)

Relax and enjoy? Yeah, I can do that!

12-11-2011, 12:05 PM	#2361
LadyRain Member How Do You Identify?: StoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Hey You.!! Relationship Status: very stuck... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: new england Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 45 Thanked 312 Times in 128 Posts Rep Power: 3554042	The drama continues SOOO I am in the car taking my GD to apply for a pt job in the neighborhood. Her phone rings....hello its your mom,,,why are you not commin home for christmas? OMG...so I have the kid and have booked her on a flight with us to my partners sisters in washington dc for christmas. Since the kid has been here i have heard nothin from her mother. Our trip was planned months ago! I spent bookoo bucks to get her on the same plane with us, what was i gonna do leave her here with the housesitter??Now I have to take the kid down to her mothers after we get back on the 28th.Its only 1 1/2 hrs away in another state. I may just hang myself!! So glad i have u guys to covetch with here..it helps!! __________________ TBI Survivor

12-11-2011, 03:39 PM	#2362
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 444 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,123 Thanked 2,553 Times in 367 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Hello everyone.. Just watched the Bengals loose in the last 8 seconds of the game..I can say more but i will stop there with respect for the Ladies in here.. Rain and Blue.. I was going through a real hard time after the break-up with my "X" and a guy at work told me that it always gets worse before it gets better..Ya know what he was right..It did get worse then better..Gotta wait it out..I do not speak to my father or sister at all.My older sister and mom have "kicked me in the face"..I stay away from them..Keep in contact with the kids and my younger Brother..That is how i made it better for myself..I am ok with it but it still hurts.. Ruthie.. Cook.??. MMMM..Do you pack lunches to..??.. Clay.. Got my back..Thanks Bro..Should i be ascared of Ruthie..??.. Gina.. Save the best for last..Ok one more time the glitter is in the top drawer on the left purple on the right pink..Let me know when it is getting low so i can re-fill the drawers..Bengals suck..Great to see you in here..!!!.. s..

12-11-2011, 03:51 PM	#2363
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	just peeking in.. .. guess i have some catching up to do.. heh... nap time here.. then heading to nashville land.... yayy.. yawwnnn __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

12-11-2011, 10:09 PM	#2364
Electrocell Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: he/hy Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: TN Posts: 1,334 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,535 Thanked 2,768 Times in 982 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	waiting We are still stuck in AL waiting on load. 3 hrs of detention time now. __________________ Love and accept me for me not someone you want me to be.

12-17-2011, 05:56 PM	#2370
Electrocell Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: he/hy Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: TN Posts: 1,334 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,535 Thanked 2,768 Times in 982 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Want to wish everyone a Happy Holidays. Barb and I are going to my families Christmas party tonight , then back out on the road tomorrow so we can get her home for Christmas with her family. __________________ Love and accept me for me not someone you want me to be.

12-20-2011, 09:26 PM	#2371
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Hey blue... I live with my mom now. She is 72. Doing quite well for 72 but the signs that things are happening are there. I see it in her eyes when she knows. For now she has a boyfriend she goes to see 2x's a week, does volunteer work and keeps the house clean and the leaves raked and the lawn mowed (try to stop her and she kill you with her eyes.) Hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas! Ruthie

12-25-2011, 08:03 AM	#2373
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Merry Christmas Everyone!

12-29-2011, 09:40 AM	#2374
LadyRain Member How Do You Identify?: StoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Hey You.!! Relationship Status: very stuck... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: new england Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 45 Thanked 312 Times in 128 Posts Rep Power: 3554042	We still have my grandaughter with us.We have decided to get gardianship. Have all the paperwork, and a lawyer. Crazy thing is her mom wants her to come back and be put into a foster home. We spent Christmas in Washington Dc with my patners family, it was wonderful having the girl with us. My partner said, "I feel like this is the first time I am bringing "my family" home for Christmas. __________________ TBI Survivor

12-29-2011, 10:02 AM	#2375
Sunny Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: New Jersey Posts: 423 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 396 Thanked 745 Times in 283 Posts Rep Power: 6521616	Hi Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!! May it be better than 2011. __________________ Sunny

12-29-2011, 11:59 AM	#2377
ArkansasPiscesGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: feeling pretty darned blissful right now! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: central AR Posts: 856 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,594 Thanked 3,080 Times in 741 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Sending out my best wishes to everyone too! I need to join in and follow more closely the notes in this thread especially. In this new year I am about to become one of the "and overs", leaving my 50's behind. It is a scary thing for me right now, even though I TELL people it is only a number. In truth, that "only a number" is downright terrifying! I truly don't KNOW what I should expect. Maybe with help from you all, I can let go with that need for expectations and just make my OWN path and picture. Maybe I can be the one to set a new example of what 60 might look like!

12-29-2011, 04:11 PM	#2378
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,098 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96,045 Thanked 31,691 Times in 7,716 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	c'mon gorgeous....I will walk in friendship along with you..I may be "over" BUT I can run circles.....jus sayin...and I only get BETTER with age...as will you!! Definitley smoking'er...wink...welcome..let go and relax and enjoy...k? __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

12-29-2011, 08:11 PM	#2379
Gina Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: Lady, Her, she...etc.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Somewhere Over The Rainbow in Kansas Posts: 85 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 378 Thanked 155 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 2225693	Happy 2012 everyone!!!