What have you learned? - Page 19

Teddybear · 01-28-2017, 09:41 PM

I have learned that no matter how much you want something with another if they aren't there they ARE NOT there. Walk away.

Sometimes you just have to remember what you had and live with that and know that they is someone out there for you.

Loving someone is never wrong maybe just the wrong time in your life.

easygoingfemme · 01-28-2017, 09:47 PM

I'm learning to be better and more quick at trusting my gut and taking action in the way it directs me.

Stone-Butch · 01-28-2017, 09:47 PM

Intelligent people have something to say. Others just have to say something.

Gayandgray · 02-12-2017, 01:37 PM

I have learned that sometimes life ain't always greener on the other side.

Gayandgray · 02-12-2017, 01:38 PM

I've also learned that sometimes you just have to take a chance, no matter how scared you are of failing.

JDeere · 02-12-2017, 01:41 PM

That being obsessive can be a negative and positive thing.

Gayandgray · 03-14-2017, 04:29 PM

I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom.

Chad · 03-14-2017, 06:19 PM

I am researching storm surge structures and I ran across a report about an aqua duct that was above grade and crossed over a river. Imagine a road bridge that crosses over a river only it was full of water and used as a shipping channel. It is located in Germany. It was awesome I have never seen anything like that before. If I knew how to upload photos in a thread I would.

girl_dee · 03-14-2017, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Gayandgray

I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom.

Yes, and with more information than you started off with.

WolfyOne · 03-14-2017, 07:15 PM

Oh, I am still learning
You trust the people you think are right, only to find out they are wrong.
Wake up happy and don"t let anyone steal it from you' I've finally learned this one

BullDog · 03-23-2017, 07:31 PM

That your heart can be a safe harbor, a sanctuary of sorts, of all your loves, failures, disappointments, broken dreams, hopes for the future that you have and have had, if you just are still and let things be and cherish every special person and moment you have experienced in your life. To just hold it all in your mind and heart at the same time.

I really hope this hard headed butch has learned this and it isn't just a temporary epiphany.

JDeere · 03-23-2017, 07:42 PM

Life isn't fair, at all, but you live and continue to learn.

DapperButch · 03-23-2017, 09:01 PM

I think I am at my best when I am alone.

easygoingfemme · 03-24-2017, 04:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I think I am at my best when I am alone.

I often feel the same...

Gemme · 03-24-2017, 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

I think I am at my best when I am alone.

For me, there's a fine line that I must walk so I don't lose myself in the relationship and become resentful. Being alone has its perks but so does snuggling on the sofa. Apparently, for me, the fine line is somewhere on the sofa.

kittygrrl · 03-24-2017, 07:19 AM

control your thoughts-this is always where the trouble starts

Chad · 03-24-2017, 07:26 PM

All work and no play makes me grumpy.
I need some fun.

My wish list

Gayandgray · 03-24-2017, 08:00 PM

That sometimes life just ain't fair. It is what it is. Move on.

JDeere · 03-24-2017, 08:58 PM

I have hardly any patience left.

GeorgiaMa'am · 03-25-2017, 12:37 AM

It is way easier for me to be compassionate than to carry resentment around about the small everyday irritations.

01-28-2017, 09:41 PM	#361
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,239 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I have learned that no matter how much you want something with another if they aren't there they ARE NOT there. Walk away. Sometimes you just have to remember what you had and live with that and know that they is someone out there for you. Loving someone is never wrong maybe just the wrong time in your life. __________________ I am ME take me as I am or leave me be..

01-28-2017, 09:47 PM	#363
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,198 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,175 Thanked 8,459 Times in 2,631 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I have learned Intelligent people have something to say. Others just have to say something.

02-12-2017, 01:37 PM	#364
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,857 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,579 Thanked 12,912 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I have learned that sometimes life ain't always greener on the other side. __________________

02-12-2017, 01:38 PM	#365
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,857 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,579 Thanked 12,912 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I've also learned that sometimes you just have to take a chance, no matter how scared you are of failing. __________________

03-14-2017, 04:29 PM	#367
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,857 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,579 Thanked 12,912 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I've learned that when you make major mistakes in life, you just have to suck it up and start all over again, sometimes from the bottom. __________________

01-28-2017, 09:47 PM	#362
easygoingfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Lil' Miss Sassy Pants Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: My place by the river Posts: 3,367 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,723 Thanked 14,130 Times in 3,011 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I'm learning to be better and more quick at trusting my gut and taking action in the way it directs me.

02-12-2017, 01:41 PM	#366
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	That being obsessive can be a negative and positive thing.

03-14-2017, 06:19 PM	#368
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,325 Times in 5,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Learned I am researching storm surge structures and I ran across a report about an aqua duct that was above grade and crossed over a river. Imagine a road bridge that crosses over a river only it was full of water and used as a shipping channel. It is located in Germany. It was awesome I have never seen anything like that before. If I knew how to upload photos in a thread I would.

03-14-2017, 07:15 PM	#370
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Oh, I am still learning You trust the people you think are right, only to find out they are wrong. Wake up happy and don"t let anyone steal it from you' I've finally learned this one __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

03-23-2017, 07:31 PM	#371
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,781 Times in 4,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	That your heart can be a safe harbor, a sanctuary of sorts, of all your loves, failures, disappointments, broken dreams, hopes for the future that you have and have had, if you just are still and let things be and cherish every special person and moment you have experienced in your life. To just hold it all in your mind and heart at the same time. I really hope this hard headed butch has learned this and it isn't just a temporary epiphany. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

03-23-2017, 07:42 PM	#372
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Life isn't fair, at all, but you live and continue to learn.

03-23-2017, 09:01 PM	#373
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,896 Times in 5,773 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I think I am at my best when I am alone. __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?

03-24-2017, 07:19 AM	#376
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: a few laughs Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the real Posts: 8,802 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,381 Thanked 21,371 Times in 6,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	control your thoughts-this is always where the trouble starts __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

03-24-2017, 07:26 PM	#377
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,325 Times in 5,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Learned All work and no play makes me grumpy. I need some fun. My wish list

03-24-2017, 08:00 PM	#378
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,857 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,579 Thanked 12,912 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	That sometimes life just ain't fair. It is what it is. Move on. __________________

03-24-2017, 08:58 PM	#379
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	I have hardly any patience left.

03-25-2017, 12:37 AM	#380
GeorgiaMa'am Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: widowed - involved, poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 5,658 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37,053 Thanked 27,123 Times in 5,118 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	It is way easier for me to be compassionate than to carry resentment around about the small everyday irritations. __________________ -GeorgiaMa'am It's been so lonely without you here Like a bird without a song Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling . . . 'Cause nothing compares, nothing compares 2 U - Prince