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02-26-2014, 11:09 AM | #1 |
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you dying wish's / living will
i could of sworn there was a thread on this ...
BUT . i couldn't find it anyways......... interesting topic ..... ok i have a question . and hopfully this will NOT offend anyone ... Butchs / trans guys ..... do you have anyone you trust to follow your wish's if something were to happen to you ??? I know i would make sure ..... I would follow your wish's and have you dressed accordingly and respectfully ......
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I can count on my son to do the things I need and want done,I also have a will made in case anyone wants to doubt those request.James also has power of attorney in case he needs it for whatever reason,he is also ex of my estate and I have the same will,p.o.a. ect. for him.In case both of us are not able to do this for each other I have a cousin who will step in to take care of this .
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Good question and one I hadn't thought of. I've recently discussed financial wishes with my sister telling her how I wanted money divided among my nieces & nephews. This is something else I need to discuss with her and I'm fairly confident she'll honor my wishes.
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First and foremost, I'm an Organ Donor. I want to be cremated when I pass on from this life. My family knows my wishes, and I'm sure my younger sister will take care of it for me, I've spoken to her about it long time ago, she was agreeable to it.
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I'm a donor also and want to be cremated. The thought of being in the ground kinda freaks me out
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It's in the butch zone called End game for butches
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ahhh yesss .. ha ty Kobi. i remember that thread.. but forgot what it was called and couldnt find it .... ty
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So now it's on my mind.I witness my own parents go through old age.I don't want to end up like that..I don't..and if I have any say in it,I won't.
It's still hard to think about it,and how they passed on..which was the best thing,for both,I guess. I still miss them. My dying wishes here... http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=6993 |
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I have done my will and power of attorney,with the Govenor generals office who become executor of my estate,I have 3 young transguys legally as my power of attorney,mainly that my family is to be removed from the hospital,and have no claim on my body,I have left my body to science,I'm an atheist/Agnostic,so when I'm dead i'm dead,I have told them in detail my wishes,and being they are gen Y,they are young enough to be around.
Having just had cancer,this has made my fear of losing my own voice,much easier and given me peace of mind,for me they are like my sons,I feel honoured that they have taken on this responsibility.
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