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Old 05-25-2011, 09:17 PM   #261
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Watching my cats sleep and listening to them snore
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When I figure it out you'll be the first to know ...

i second that my Friend.

lotsa things give me peace normally.
instant gratification is sounding sweet right about now tho!
thinking today my 'peace' shall be a nice drive with really loud music.
indeed.
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Old 05-26-2011, 09:30 AM   #266
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thinking today my 'peace' shall be a nice drive with really loud music.
Since I hit a brick wall (not literally) a few weeks ago I've found that I appreciate music a lot more. It brings me a sense of peace to drive through the Ct. countryside and listen to sad, lost your love, type of songs. My poor dog is ready to hang herself ....
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Removing toxicity from my life gives me peace.....sometimes, it's easier said than done, but when it happens, it's magically delicious!



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*Watching the fire in my chimnea;

*Angels;

*Stained glassed windows in any Church;

*My garden.
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Layin' in the grass on My back__and starin' at the clouds then closin' My eyes and gettin' lost in all the sounds around....
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Falling asleep with a gentle rain falling on the house, cuddled up with the wife, our boy in his room and all the pups sleeping soundly. Peace.
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If You've had a cruddy day, what do You do to 'shake it off'? Meditate? Listen to music? Read? Walk?

What do You do to center Yourself...to bring peace to Your soul?



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In order to bring peace to my soul, I go to the park and watch the squirrels and birds... It works for me!
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right now what brings me peace is:

strong arms that hold me when fear knocks

the quail singing in the back yard

listening to my girl, adele
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1.) Listening to music....especially "Rolling in the Deep" by Adele
2.) Going for aimless drives
3.) Being near the ocean
4.) Spending time with good friends
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Putting around in the garden.

Giving myself kudos for sticking to my values and boundaries without guilt!

Watching my little Frog Dog take in the scent of a flower.

Giving my old cat that is in the end of life phase due to kidney failure lots of love and brushing him while he purr thanks me.
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quiet library
museum
creating
breeze through the trees
cool sheets
totally relaxed cats
Chopin
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Watching the waves break on the shore, the smell of seasalt in the air
Listening to a beautiful thunderstorm (great for making love to )
The smell of rain in the desert
My favorite music, especially on a long drive with the windows down
Reading a very good book
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A really long, sweet kiss (see above)
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French pressed goodness.

A cool breeze coming through the window.

The smell of books in a library.

A knowing silence.

Sharing the same Sun, Moon, and Stars.

An open door to a wonderful future.

Ice cold bottled water.

Driving the truck with the music up loud and no destination.

The cats all stretched out and cooling off.

My niece's laugh.

The hypnosis receiver.

Knowing that tomorrow there is the great likelyhood of more peace to come.
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