Big Butch Love - Page 4

Andrew, Jr. · 01-27-2010, 08:27 AM

I agree. Kids and some adults have no clue as to what is acceptable and not any longer. It is like people using cell phones in the movies or during Church services. I find it so very rude. I have no interest in listening to their conversation. Otherwise, I would ask them to let me in on it (like a conference call). Civility has gone wayside. Just like our economy, it is down the toilet.

Andrew, Jr. · 02-08-2010, 11:13 AM

The last time I was in public, I was called this by 2 army soldiers. I was dropping off a few things that were to be delivered to Haiti. Now, I have 2 speeds - slow & slower. Just how it is. The soldiers did not see me walk up. And had no clue I walk slowly.

There were soldiers everywhere, and of all ranks/positions. Well, some upper ranked men heard this, and pulled the 2 soldiers off the box collection, and were dismissed immediately. I was given an apology, and asked if I had time to tour the base, and have lunch with them. I declined. I was just wayy to embarassed.

I think being called any derrogatory name is the same as being called a fag, queer, or whatever. It is not meant in a favorable light. It is meant negatively. That is what needs to change in this country. And to think that most folks are overweight, and to have to deal with folks like Dr. Oz on TV who just goes on tangents about being overweight. It makes my blood boil. Personally, I am sick and tired of it all. I want to be told I am handsome. I want to hear that I smell so good. I want to hear that I am a snappy dresser. I want to hear the nice things. Not the ugly stuff all the time. It wears me down.

I just had to vent. Thanks for listening.

Andrew

casey35 · 02-08-2010, 11:24 AM

To me I dont care if u slim jim or a beautiful gorgous butch femme mtf ftm . To me people should see what inside you . The personality , the humor , the whole self. To me i think people with love handles are gorgous.

Andrew, Jr. · 02-08-2010, 12:15 PM

Casey35,

That right there is the problem. It is few and far between. Not too many have the mindset like you. Society is anti-fat, yet 3/4 of society are fat. I just don't get it. Thank you for your kind words.

Namaste,
Andrew

casey35 · 02-08-2010, 01:21 PM

people just see what on tv and if u notice all is slim jim. You dont see the gorgous full body people. Like i tell my friends if they dont like you or what they see then that their problem not yours.

andrew here a statement i heard from a doctor, Just because people maybe larger in body does not mean they are unhealthy. They was comparing two people one that was slender and one that was full bodied. they ask the audience who they thought was the most healthy. most pick the thin one. they was wrong it was the one that was full bodied, so people need to take note.

Andrew, Jr. · 02-08-2010, 02:20 PM

Casey35,

Thank you for telling me that. It sure did brighten my day!

Andrew
ox

Rockinonahigh · 02-08-2010, 04:11 PM

Brother Andrew,so sorry u had some ahole jerk make stupid comments like that.Buddy u bet in a fue years they will be pot bellied and bald as an egg,then I hope they remember the comments cause someone will shure say something to them at some point.Please keep doing the good things u do for folks as well as being the al around good person u are.

Casey35...I had a simular thing happen a fue years ago when I was going to college,the school had a nurseing program and they were doing a segment on healthy vs heavy.I was ask to be a part of the study 6 average fit ppl and 4 ppl that were in various sises of the heavy end of the scale.Out of it all the 4 heavyest out did 5 of the others in stamania,blood pressure,respitorey recovery on and off the tredmill as well as strength in lifting,pulling ,pushing ect.Recently I went to the doc for a chekup and my bp is 110/70,my lab work is as good as a healthy 35yro,repitory on the money(at least till everything blooms in the spriong ..then i'm toast)...even tho I still weigh 245 I have lots more muscel mass than is aparent...not to bad for 62yro.

Rockin

bigbutchmistie · 02-16-2010, 09:43 AM

Wow. I didnt see this thread here. Until now.

Bump. I hope everyone is enjoying their Phat Tuesday

hpychick · 02-16-2010, 10:35 AM

love your quote

Quote:

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Wow. I didnt see this thread here. Until now.

Bump. I hope everyone is enjoying their Phat Tuesday

bigbutchmistie · 02-16-2010, 01:03 PM

Thank You

bigbutchmistie · 02-18-2010, 08:35 AM

Good Morning Peeps

Hope everyone has a good Thursday

bigbutchmistie · 05-16-2010, 08:41 AM

BUMPITY BUMP

Andrew, Jr. · 05-16-2010, 08:57 AM

Where do the heavy guys go to buy their rash guard shirts for the beach? I end up wearing dark t-shirts. It works best for me.

When I was slimmer I could buy them off the rack at surf shops. Not any longer.

bigbutchmistie · 05-16-2010, 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

Where do the heavy guys go to buy their rash guard shirts for the beach? I end up wearing dark t-shirts. It works best for me.

When I was slimmer I could buy them off the rack at surf shops. Not any longer.

I dont know Andrew... I dont even attempt to go swimming. I loved it when I was thinner. Havent done it in years.

Galahad · 05-16-2010, 02:54 PM

Underworks has a compression swimsuit, tank and shorts. I don't know if you can get the pieces separately or not. Would one of the compression tanks in black work for swimming?

Andrew, Jr. · 05-16-2010, 06:00 PM

Galahad,

They don't have my size. I have a compression shirt I wore for years and years, but it eventually wore out. But swimming, the material doesn't hold up. You have to have material that will repeal water. Remember I am a chubby guy.

Thank you for the advice dear brother.

Namaste,
Andrew

fiercegrrl · 05-16-2010, 06:25 PM

i saw andrew's post earlier today about looking for a rashguard. so i started looking around (i have a lot of time on my hands these days so i make a good researcher!!!) and i have found a few. so no excuses to not enjoy the beach or a pool!
-nicole

this first site has quite a few options but here is one-
http://www.solartex.com/servlet/the-...us-Size/Detail

land's end has some options
http://www.landsend.com/ix/swimwear-...eSize=12&tab=6

http://www.landsend.com/pp/ShortSlee...5&origin=index

Andrew, Jr. · 05-16-2010, 06:29 PM

How do you know the size from UK vs US? Is it a size up or down?

Thank you for the links! I will be looking into these! WooHoo!

Andrew, Jr. · 05-16-2010, 07:05 PM

Fiercegrrl,

I found it! It is a bit expensive, but I am going to have to save up for it. Thank you!

Rockinonahigh · 05-16-2010, 10:04 PM

Andrew,I get spandex t-shirts to wear as a binder and wear it under my t'shirts they repel water very well.Just make shure u dont get them so tight u cant breath,the only prob I had was they rolled up so I cut the spandex short enough to hold thigs in place but not to short..it will sitll roll some but works fine..I weigh 250 so u should be able to get them at acadamy or some place like it.I got mine at wally world for ten dollars each.They also have spandex shorts but I found them not to be comfortable.

02-08-2010, 11:13 AM	#62
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Lardass - is this even a word? The last time I was in public, I was called this by 2 army soldiers. I was dropping off a few things that were to be delivered to Haiti. Now, I have 2 speeds - slow & slower. Just how it is. The soldiers did not see me walk up. And had no clue I walk slowly. There were soldiers everywhere, and of all ranks/positions. Well, some upper ranked men heard this, and pulled the 2 soldiers off the box collection, and were dismissed immediately. I was given an apology, and asked if I had time to tour the base, and have lunch with them. I declined. I was just wayy to embarassed. I think being called any derrogatory name is the same as being called a fag, queer, or whatever. It is not meant in a favorable light. It is meant negatively. That is what needs to change in this country. And to think that most folks are overweight, and to have to deal with folks like Dr. Oz on TV who just goes on tangents about being overweight. It makes my blood boil. Personally, I am sick and tired of it all. I want to be told I am handsome. I want to hear that I smell so good. I want to hear that I am a snappy dresser. I want to hear the nice things. Not the ugly stuff all the time. It wears me down. I just had to vent. Thanks for listening. Andrew

02-08-2010, 11:24 AM	#63
casey35 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: a she Relationship Status: finding my way , Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: arkansas Posts: 74 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 108 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 859273	hey To me I dont care if u slim jim or a beautiful gorgous butch femme mtf ftm . To me people should see what inside you . The personality , the humor , the whole self. To me i think people with love handles are gorgous. __________________

02-08-2010, 01:21 PM	#65
casey35 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: a she Relationship Status: finding my way , Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: arkansas Posts: 74 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 108 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 859273	andrew people just see what on tv and if u notice all is slim jim. You dont see the gorgous full body people. Like i tell my friends if they dont like you or what they see then that their problem not yours. andrew here a statement i heard from a doctor, Just because people maybe larger in body does not mean they are unhealthy. They was comparing two people one that was slender and one that was full bodied. they ask the audience who they thought was the most healthy. most pick the thin one. they was wrong it was the one that was full bodied, so people need to take note. __________________

05-16-2010, 06:25 PM	#77
fiercegrrl In Memory Of How Do You Identify?: fierce femme grrl Preferred Pronoun?: beautiful, pumpkin, princess, sweet pea, babygirl Relationship Status: i don't think it's in the stars for me. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: washington DC Posts: 133 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 293 Times in 83 Posts Rep Power: 2486278	rashguards i saw andrew's post earlier today about looking for a rashguard. so i started looking around (i have a lot of time on my hands these days so i make a good researcher!!!) and i have found a few. so no excuses to not enjoy the beach or a pool! -nicole this first site has quite a few options but here is one- http://www.solartex.com/servlet/the-...us-Size/Detail land's end has some options http://www.landsend.com/ix/swimwear-...eSize=12&tab=6 http://www.landsend.com/pp/ShortSlee...5&origin=index __________________ "and you can use my skin. to bury secret sins."

01-27-2010, 08:27 AM	#61
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	I agree. Kids and some adults have no clue as to what is acceptable and not any longer. It is like people using cell phones in the movies or during Church services. I find it so very rude. I have no interest in listening to their conversation. Otherwise, I would ask them to let me in on it (like a conference call). Civility has gone wayside. Just like our economy, it is down the toilet.

02-08-2010, 12:15 PM	#64
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Casey35, That right there is the problem. It is few and far between. Not too many have the mindset like you. Society is anti-fat, yet 3/4 of society are fat. I just don't get it. Thank you for your kind words. Namaste, Andrew

02-08-2010, 02:20 PM	#66
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Casey35, Thank you for telling me that. It sure did brighten my day! Andrew ox

02-08-2010, 04:11 PM	#67
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,935 Times in 3,937 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Brother Andrew,so sorry u had some ahole jerk make stupid comments like that.Buddy u bet in a fue years they will be pot bellied and bald as an egg,then I hope they remember the comments cause someone will shure say something to them at some point.Please keep doing the good things u do for folks as well as being the al around good person u are. Casey35...I had a simular thing happen a fue years ago when I was going to college,the school had a nurseing program and they were doing a segment on healthy vs heavy.I was ask to be a part of the study 6 average fit ppl and 4 ppl that were in various sises of the heavy end of the scale.Out of it all the 4 heavyest out did 5 of the others in stamania,blood pressure,respitorey recovery on and off the tredmill as well as strength in lifting,pulling ,pushing ect.Recently I went to the doc for a chekup and my bp is 110/70,my lab work is as good as a healthy 35yro,repitory on the money(at least till everything blooms in the spriong ..then i'm toast)...even tho I still weigh 245 I have lots more muscel mass than is aparent...not to bad for 62yro. Rockin

02-16-2010, 09:43 AM	#68
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Wow. I didnt see this thread here. Until now. Bump. I hope everyone is enjoying their Phat Tuesday

02-16-2010, 01:03 PM	#70
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Thank You

02-18-2010, 08:35 AM	#71
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Good Morning Peeps Hope everyone has a good Thursday

05-16-2010, 08:41 AM	#72
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	BUMPITY BUMP

05-16-2010, 08:57 AM	#73
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Where do the heavy guys go to buy their rash guard shirts for the beach? I end up wearing dark t-shirts. It works best for me. When I was slimmer I could buy them off the rack at surf shops. Not any longer.

05-16-2010, 02:54 PM	#75
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446603	Underworks has a compression swimsuit, tank and shorts. I don't know if you can get the pieces separately or not. Would one of the compression tanks in black work for swimming?

05-16-2010, 06:00 PM	#76
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Galahad, They don't have my size. I have a compression shirt I wore for years and years, but it eventually wore out. But swimming, the material doesn't hold up. You have to have material that will repeal water. Remember I am a chubby guy. Thank you for the advice dear brother. Namaste, Andrew

05-16-2010, 06:29 PM	#78
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	How do you know the size from UK vs US? Is it a size up or down? Thank you for the links! I will be looking into these! WooHoo!

05-16-2010, 07:05 PM	#79
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Fiercegrrl, I found it! It is a bit expensive, but I am going to have to save up for it. Thank you!

05-16-2010, 10:04 PM	#80
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,935 Times in 3,937 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Andrew,I get spandex t-shirts to wear as a binder and wear it under my t'shirts they repel water very well.Just make shure u dont get them so tight u cant breath,the only prob I had was they rolled up so I cut the spandex short enough to hold thigs in place but not to short..it will sitll roll some but works fine..I weigh 250 so u should be able to get them at acadamy or some place like it.I got mine at wally world for ten dollars each.They also have spandex shorts but I found them not to be comfortable.