Demographics of how we date/partner/be single

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 05:30 PM

I'm just very curious about how this splits up here on the planet...

JDeere · 10-12-2014, 05:58 PM

Single, not dating, not having casual sex vote for me

TruTexan · 10-12-2014, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Single, not dating, not having casual sex vote for me

Same here............small str8 town here, no lesbians anywhere the eye can see. LOL too busy taking care of my mom's needs and my own to go driving around town in Dallas an hour or more away to find a date and I don't do casual sex.

JDeere · 10-12-2014, 06:10 PM

Durant doesn't have much I have to drive 2 hours or so, to okc.

*Anya* · 10-12-2014, 06:14 PM

Partnered and monogamous.

SleepyButch · 10-12-2014, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Durant doesn't have much I have to drive 2 hours or so, to okc.

Have you found femmes that go for Butches in OKC? Just curious since I cannot ever find any.

JDeere · 10-12-2014, 06:23 PM

I'm not butch so idk. I've only been to a club there once. Was worth the drive though.

EnchantedNightDweller · 10-12-2014, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

Have you found femmes that go for Butches in OKC? Just curious since I cannot ever find any.

Those femmes in OKC must be blind, Sleepy! Lol

SleepyButch · 10-12-2014, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by EnchantedNightDweller

Those femmes in OKC must be blind, Sleepy! Lol

Hell.. that's funny. Ty! I just thought there weren't any!

Kelt · 10-12-2014, 06:39 PM

Looks like single no date/sex is in the lead.

~SweetCheeks~ · 10-12-2014, 07:09 PM

Partnered/committed monogamous.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 07:30 PM

I'm pretty blunt about being a girly girl that only goes for butch on OKCupid. There is a very rare butch 35+ on okcupid in my area. Usually poly.

The ones that are out on cupid about being butch and are monog/poly/single/etc... Just plain out about being Butch and come in various different guises are all across the border in Seattle and further south.

The only out ones here are poly and with a partner. Which is fine. I'm in school anyway. But I never get a write back. *shrug*

MsTinkerbelly · 10-12-2014, 08:05 PM

Married, monogamous.

Nadeest · 10-12-2014, 08:47 PM

I'm definitely single, and not dating. That is because I haven't found anyone, though. I'd happily go out with someone nice, that asked me out, right now, no matter what their age, as long as they were of legal age.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 08:58 PM

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

Mel C. · 10-12-2014, 09:05 PM

Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.

Gaige · 10-12-2014, 09:11 PM

Single, not dating, no casual sex. I need an attraction in order to be able to have sex with a femme. And if there is an attraction, I’ll most likely try to date her.

diamondrose · 10-12-2014, 09:36 PM

Committed and monogamous..almost married.

Uli · 10-12-2014, 10:07 PM

I got an error when I tried to answer the poll.

Partnered and monogamish.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 10:31 PM

Uli does monogamish mean you have sex outside the relationship but not emotionally have other relationships? (Non-monogamy rather than poly)

View Poll Results: How do we date/partner/be single?
Single, not dating, not having casual sex	28	29.17%
Single, casual dating/casual sex	8	8.33%
Single, dating one person, no commitments	12	12.50%
Seeing someone/partnered/married - closed relationship - monogamy or polyfidelity	36	37.50%
Seeing people/someone, partnered or married - open relationships- nonmonogamy/polyamory ect	12	12.50%
Voters: 96. You may not vote on this poll

10-12-2014, 05:30 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Demographics of how we date/partner/be single I'm just very curious about how this splits up here on the planet...

10-12-2014, 05:58 PM	#2
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Single, not dating, not having casual sex vote for me __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

10-12-2014, 06:10 PM	#4
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Durant doesn't have much I have to drive 2 hours or so, to okc. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

10-12-2014, 06:14 PM	#5
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,791 Times in 7,290 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Partnered and monogamous. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

10-12-2014, 06:23 PM	#7
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	I'm not butch so idk. I've only been to a club there once. Was worth the drive though. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

10-12-2014, 06:39 PM	#10
Kelt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Beach Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: SoCal Posts: 2,751 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,765 Thanked 15,379 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Looks like single no date/sex is in the lead.

10-12-2014, 07:09 PM	#11
~SweetCheeks~ Member How Do You Identify?: femme-babygirl-brat Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Justin's babygirl Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: So Cal Posts: 733 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,608 Thanked 3,254 Times in 646 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Partnered/committed monogamous.

10-12-2014, 07:30 PM	#12
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I'm pretty blunt about being a girly girl that only goes for butch on OKCupid. There is a very rare butch 35+ on okcupid in my area. Usually poly. The ones that are out on cupid about being butch and are monog/poly/single/etc... Just plain out about being Butch and come in various different guises are all across the border in Seattle and further south. The only out ones here are poly and with a partner. Which is fine. I'm in school anyway. But I never get a write back. shrug

10-12-2014, 08:05 PM	#13
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,958 Times in 5,020 Posts Rep Power: 0	Married, monogamous.

10-12-2014, 08:47 PM	#14
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077996	I'm definitely single, and not dating. That is because I haven't found anyone, though. I'd happily go out with someone nice, that asked me out, right now, no matter what their age, as long as they were of legal age.

10-12-2014, 08:58 PM	#15
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Ok when you do date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

10-12-2014, 09:05 PM	#16
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,840 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.

10-12-2014, 09:11 PM	#17
Gaige Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: above my boots Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 3,756 Times in 1,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Single, not dating, no casual sex. I need an attraction in order to be able to have sex with a femme. And if there is an attraction, I’ll most likely try to date her.

10-12-2014, 09:36 PM	#18
diamondrose Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: . Posts: 1,384 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 2,895 Times in 923 Posts Rep Power: 13536273	Committed and monogamous..almost married.

10-12-2014, 10:07 PM	#19
Uli Member How Do You Identify?: fat girl Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: - Posts: 112 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 173 Thanked 530 Times in 104 Posts Rep Power: 3865492	I got an error when I tried to answer the poll. Partnered and monogamish.

10-12-2014, 10:31 PM	#20
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Uli does monogamish mean you have sex outside the relationship but not emotionally have other relationships? (Non-monogamy rather than poly)