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Old 08-25-2019, 12:47 PM   #761
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I am grateful for trailing Nasturtium. They're a hardy flowering plant and they grow rather quickly and they are simply beautiful. They can grow down your driveway or they can climb up a trellis or if potted in a big enough pot, they will gracefully adorn any window or patio area.




I'm also grateful for all the times I have shopped at Nordstrom's. I bought my watch at their store's jewelry dept; and I've bought lovely bedding there before too. I've even bought several articles of clothing from their ladies dept, over the years. I'm sad, because the only store left here is downtown or out on the west side of town. It's a favorite place to shop during the winter holidays. I have a keepsake Nutcracker that I bought at one of their stores, years ago.

Which, btw, I love Nutcrackers.
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I am grateful for trailing Nasturtium. They're a hardy flowering plant and they grow rather quickly and they are simply beautiful. They can grow down your driveway or they can climb up a trellis or if potted in a big enough pot, they will gracefully adorn any window or patio area.




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i could envy that Nasturtiums will grow for you there...the soil here is poor but this isn't the only deficit..i think it may be too hot
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i could envy that Nasturtiums will grow for you there...the soil here is poor but this isn't the only deficit..i think it may be too hot
I think it's true that Nasturtiums like cooler weather, but we haven't had cool weather typical of our region for quite some time now. When my first Butch partner and I were together, years ago, during the late 1990s, we grew Nasturtiums down the drive way and all around the perimeter of our house.

Those were the days, good memories of gardening. My partner was the gardener, I wasn't. I just enjoyed the gardening gift she brought to our lives.
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