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Old 09-15-2016, 11:59 AM   #421
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This is a great shirt just not crazy about the pocket.
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Thanks for the tip but I think one might be able to tell there was once a pocket.
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This is a great shirt just not crazy about the pocket.
Most of my shirts, nice ones have pockets but this type of shirt shouldn't have a pocket. Looks classier without one.
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Most of my shirts, nice ones have pockets but this type of shirt shouldn't have a pocket. Looks classier without one.
I don't do any shirts with pockets. I don't want to draw attention to my chest.
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I don't do any shirts with pockets. I don't want to draw attention to my chest.
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Thanks for the tip but I think one might be able to tell there was once a pocket.
Not if done by professional. After steam pressing there will be no marks.
Such a repair can be done well. If not washed and dried it's an easy fix.
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I have kinda become accustomed to khakis and polos, again!

I guess due to ALOT of job interviews you start to get comfortable in certain clothes, plus dropping 26 pounds in a year has helped too.
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I found another site but this time it is for underwear, it's not men's underwear but underwear that looks like men's but fits the body. I find it expensive but may purchase a pair to see if they fit better then what I currently wear.

https://tomboyx.com/
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https://tomboyx.com/
Hey thank u for posting this! I checked out their site and they have some good stuff!
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Yes they do. Glad you found the link helpful.
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Do yall dress according to what your partner likes or what you find comfortable for you?

My gf loves me in polo shirts for some reason, I go along with it at first but now I don't mind looking nice for her. Lol she's the only gf that I have actually dressed up for.
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My gf loves me in polo shirts for some reason, I go along with it at first but now I don't mind looking nice for her. Lol she's the only gf that I have actually dressed up for.
I honestly have never had a GF not like the way I dressed. So, changing style in any way has never been a problem. My GFs have suggested certain colors if I am trying on clothes in a store, and I will often go with what they like. I tend to trust the people's opinion that I date. I suppose that is because I typically couple with people who in my opinion (ha), has good taste/wears what looks good on them. If my partner and I are going out somewhere dressed up, I always encourage them to tell me what they would like me to wear. Too, if I presenting at a conference or some other professional affair where I will be "front and center", I tend to go with their suggestions.

I also wouldn't be adverse to trying a different style in the store if they thought it would look good on me. However, no one has ever suggested I wear something that I wasn't comfortable in. But, in the off chance that someone asked me to wear something that I wasn't comfortable in, I would try it, but unless I liked it, no, I wouldn't wear it. I am also comfortable letting my GFs know what I prefer on them. This would be clothing styles that are already a part of their wardrobe. I don't have a sense of the latest "trends" that women are wearing, so it is not like I ever come "home" and make random suggestions. Too, it isn't important to me that my GF is wearing the "latest trend", I just like whatever I think is most flattering to the person...and like I said, my comments would only come from their current wardrobe.
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I wear black shirts with tiny spots of brown colored bleach stains..The other night a black kitten in distress found me while doing my laundry and I brought her in to feed and water. She totally compliments my attire and blends right into my apartment. She is so cute with her little brown spindle spots scattered here and there..I swear I did not spill bleach on her, but one would think that..
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Any of y'all have issues with certain brands of clothing not fitting like others? I find this really frustrating.
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All bodies are different and not all brands work for everyone. The key is to find a brand that works for your body. I think a well fit piece of clothing is much more important than brands. A good tailor can also help to shorten arms of shirts (pretty cheaply), if that is something you are running into. That can be a problem for some butches, regardless of brand.
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All bodies are different and not all brands work for everyone. The key is to find a brand that works for your body. I think a well fit piece of clothing is much more important than brands. A good tailor can also help to shorten arms of shirts (pretty cheaply), if that is something you are running into. That can be a problem for some butches, regardless of brand.
Yes the arms at times. Being I'm so short lol
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For the big bois here is a link to some good quality clothes but I find them to be a bit expensive.

http://www.destinationxl.com/mens-big-and-tall-store/
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Okay advice, I might be working in an office environment, I have NO clue on how to really dress for that.

I don't wear suits so that's out, so would khakis and dress pants with nice shirts work?
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Okay advice, I might be working in an office environment, I have NO clue on how to really dress for that.

I don't wear suits so that's out, so would khakis and dress pants with nice shirts work?
Is there any way to scope it out ahead of time? Walk through the building maybe? Seeing what others are wearing would help. On a first day I'd rather be a little more dressed than under dressed. Your plan sounds pretty good for most offices (I don't know what kind of business you're waking into).

Do you have anything like a sport jacket you can show up in and then just take off if it's too much?
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Is there any way to scope it out ahead of time? Walk through the building maybe? Seeing what others are wearing would help. On a first day I'd rather be a little more dressed than under dressed. Your plan sounds pretty good for most offices (I don't know what kind of business you're waking into).

Do you have anything like a sport jacket you can show up in and then just take off if it's too much?
No, no walk through on this job and I don't own a suit or anything like that.

It's a county job, I got the dress code but it was kind of vague. So I think it's going to be one of those you show up and they will tell ya what you can and can't wear.
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