Femme Flagging?

Quintease · 04-09-2012, 05:22 PM

What colours would you choose

starryeyes · 04-09-2012, 06:22 PM

Whatever matched my outfit with rhinestones...

Breathless · 04-09-2012, 06:24 PM

Could not have said better myself *S*

Parker · 04-09-2012, 06:24 PM

I thought the title of this thread was femme flogging - I did a serious double take. lol

starryeyes · 04-09-2012, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Parker

I thought the title of this thread was femme flogging - I did a serious double take. lol

Smile! Sounds good too... Lol

Morgan · 04-09-2012, 06:29 PM

Do they make glitter ones? That actually might work....

starryeyes · 04-09-2012, 06:35 PM

I just got back from IMsL, and they had vendors selling femme pins so femmes could flag while wearing a dress or whatever. They were handkerchiefs in the shape of roses that could easily be pinned wherever you want. I thought it was a brilliant idea, but I am not a fan of pinning stuff on my clothes. Maybe a femme hankerchief bracelet or something for me, Hunter Green with rinestones! Yummy

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 04-09-2012, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Parker

I thought the title of this thread was femme flogging - I did a serious double take. lol

Yeah, I did a double take too. I was thinking I needed to write in "pick me pick me pick me!" LOL

As for flagging as a femme, if it would be so easy to pin something or tie something on, that would be great. But for some of us, I don't think anything tied or pinned on would automatically transform that femme into someone that is not invisible. There are times that it feels, to me anyway, that I could have neon lights pointing to me saying "She is gay, she is femme, and she likes butch women!!" and I STILL would get ignored!

But I do have to say, the little etsy things are cute.

genghisfawn · 04-09-2012, 10:51 PM

A friend of mine put a post on her Facebook today about femme flagging... Using nail polish.

Just paint one colour of one nail on either the right or the left (and hold your drink with that hand all night) in the colour of your choice.

Though, I have to say, painting argyle with my left hand onto my right would be an adventure...

aishah · 04-09-2012, 10:57 PM

i love the crafty ideas, especially the nail polish (although i like all my nails to match...) and the pins and bracelets idea

and i approve wholeheartedly of both flagging and flogging

Talon · 04-11-2012, 12:44 PM

Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.

Poss · 11-09-2016, 06:04 AM

I feel the pink quartz crystal is a beautiful colour for our femme symbol. We could have a special bird feather brooch made of pure pink quartz crystal.

thedivahrrrself · 04-11-2012, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

There are times that it feels, to me anyway, that I could have neon lights pointing to me saying "She is gay, she is femme, and she likes butch women!!" and I STILL would get ignored! .

OMG I so know this feeling! I'll wear a rainbow necklace to Pride and in my skirt and heels, and someone will still come up to me and thank me for being there, and ask if I'm there to support my brother or something. UGH! I think I'm going to make a dress that says "I ♥ BUTCH LESBIANS" in giant letters or something LoL

LaneyDoll · 04-11-2012, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself

OMG I so know this feeling! I'll wear a rainbow necklace to Pride and in my skirt and heels, and someone will still come up to me and thank me for being there, and ask if I'm there to support my brother or something. UGH! I think I'm going to make a dress that says "I ♥ BUTCH LESBIANS" in giant letters or something LoL

OMG I needed to read this! I have a shirt that says "I ♥ Boobies!"

04-09-2012, 05:22 PM	#1
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04-09-2012, 06:22 PM	#2
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04-09-2012, 06:29 PM	#6
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04-09-2012, 06:35 PM	#7
starryeyes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?: Guess... Relationship Status: Seat taken Join Date: May 2011 Location: Rocky Mountain High Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,199 Thanked 10,057 Times in 2,078 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I just got back from IMsL, and they had vendors selling femme pins so femmes could flag while wearing a dress or whatever. They were handkerchiefs in the shape of roses that could easily be pinned wherever you want. I thought it was a brilliant idea, but I am not a fan of pinning stuff on my clothes. Maybe a femme hankerchief bracelet or something for me, Hunter Green with rinestones! Yummy __________________ "It's ok to make mistakes. It's ok to fall down. Get up! Look sickening....and make them eat it!" - Latrice Royale Starry

04-09-2012, 06:24 PM	#4
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04-09-2012, 10:51 PM	#9
genghisfawn Member How Do You Identify?: Femme/Gentlewoman Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Happily married 05/17/14 Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Posts: 561 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,056 Thanked 2,157 Times in 403 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	A friend of mine put a post on her Facebook today about femme flagging... Using nail polish. Just paint one colour of one nail on either the right or the left (and hold your drink with that hand all night) in the colour of your choice. Though, I have to say, painting argyle with my left hand onto my right would be an adventure...

04-09-2012, 10:57 PM	#10
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,437 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	i love the crafty ideas, especially the nail polish (although i like all my nails to match...) and the pins and bracelets idea and i approve wholeheartedly of both flagging and flogging

04-11-2012, 12:44 PM	#11
Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,230 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.

11-09-2016, 06:04 AM	#12
Poss Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Gay, Lesbian, Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Legally Married in 2018 Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 160 Times in 33 Posts Rep Power: 1932746	Pink quartz crystal I feel the pink quartz crystal is a beautiful colour for our femme symbol. We could have a special bird feather brooch made of pure pink quartz crystal.