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1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Be on the dating scene
2. What's been on your mind most lately? bringing the different communities I belong to together. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? In that order 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To stop having the worst strep throat of my life 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Bliss! 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Financial security 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a 60 year old woman with the curiosity of a teenager. 8. What do you want to be known for? My writing. My hips. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My daughter and sisters. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Hoping that the bliss of the last month matures into s solid relationship. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Having people notice my commitment to activism. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? good energy, common viewpoint, two-way street 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? I am blossoming right now so not an issue at the moment. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? To write a book 15. What stands between you and what you want? Time, self-discipline 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Look at the sky 17. When did you first realize that life is short? Death of relatives as a child 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Increasing my client base. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Laundry, straightening up house 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Misunderstand trans people 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I'm white, that I'm straight 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My ability to love 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Sunshine 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? The knees 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? The first time for me and my gf 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? More financial security, health insurance 27. If not now, then when? When I finish my master's degree in May 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Two amazing children 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? Yeah, that….. 30. What do you want to remember forever? my kids as toddlers 31. What could society do without? How about repressive social norms? 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? I love butch energy……. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Bridging racial gaps requires hard work and intentionality for white people. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Yeah, that……... 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Being so alienated from my parents 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Being associate director of a kickass Latino org. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? You didn't have to spend all those years in depression 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? It was really worth it….and feed my cat, somebody 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? No! 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? When is RuPaul's Drag Race coming back on? |
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I'm not going to quote your post Iamuymuyfem but I loved reading every word of it. I laughed, smiled, agreed, and admired. Sexagenarians rock!
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1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
So many things. I could write an essay. They're all important in their own way so I can't just pick one. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? The fact that until about August the possibility of me dating or having a social life is basically nil. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? happiness and health tie for first, they can't be completely separated. Then love, money, fame. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? I want to be awake and alert enough to do a piano practice but I'm not 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Hectic. 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Getting through the next few months with my sanity intact and all my bits attached. 7. In one sentence, who are you? For better or worse, I am me. 8. What do you want to be known for? For being a good person and going out of my way to help others. It's nice being known for things you're good at, but I find that puts me under pressure (mostly from myself) and I don't like that aspect so I'd rather be known for being nice. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Can I take my dog? 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Fricking goodness knows. I have a fairly good idea of how the next 6 months will run but the second half of the year is still a closed book. Next year doesn't even exist yet. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My animals. AKA my babies. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Someone who makes an effort to keep in contact with me, someone likes hugging, sense of humour. Preferably one similar to my rather whacky one. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Applying for certain jobs. Admittedly my fear of failure wasn't exactly unfounded, being barely qualified and completely inexperienced would have significantly stood against me. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Have kids. 15. What stands between you and what you want? Ahhh.. sperm? 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Piano. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? Still haven't figured that one out lol life seems pretty long from where I currently stand. 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Piano. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Questioning a lot of stuff about myself and the world at the moment. Get back to me in a few months and I'll let you know. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Vaccinate their kids. (Not intended to start a discussion on the topic!! I disagree based on research not ignorance) 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? Two that I've heard a few times are I had a neat room when I was growing up and that I'm a vegetarian. Neither could be further from the truth and I have no idea where people get those ideas. A quite common one is that I'm a guy. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My self-love. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Seeing my dog. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? I now kind of regret quitting double bass. Does that count? 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Being part of an official Guinness world record. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Figure out how to go to bed at a reasonable time. Stuck in a habit of late nights from a combination of being an online student and an evening job I had a few years ago. 27. If not now, then when? If not what now? 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Lots of stuff. Most recent one is deadlifting 5/6 of my own weight. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I am currently learning how to remain strong in my convictions even when everyone's questioning or attacking them. This has been happening to me recently on several issues. Yes, I'm a slow learner. 30. What do you want to remember forever? The core essence of who I am. Sounds silly, but it can be very easy to lose yourself in this society. 31. What could society do without? You want me to pick one? Ummm.. Highly processed foods. 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? That I sure as hell am not ready for the bowls tournament I've been asked to take part in, starting this Saturday. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Health starts on the inside- love yourself, balance your body/mind/spirit/life, and everything else will fall into place. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Motorbike. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Practising scales. As a kid I hated it (as per normal lol) but now I find them therapeutic. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Clubbing. Maybe my body didn't thank me for it, but I had a great time for the few months that I was a regular goer. Pretty over it now. lol 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? I would tell myself the reason why I found so much stuff difficult growing up. Won't say it publicly here but damn I wish I'd known younger. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I would say goodbye to my animals and tell them I love them. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I hope not. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What did I come into this room for? 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Reading back its kinda funny how some things have changed drastically in 2 years and other things have stayed the same.
Now: 1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? This year my relationship is at the stage where it has gotten clear we're both definitely in it for the long haul and that we love each other more than anything. I wouldn't trade that for anything. I also have more stable housing than last year. I can sleep at night without being eaten alive by bed bugs or having to run to emerg at 2 am because my eyes are swelling shut. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? How much I love our current living situation, the people that should still be in this world but aren't, and also money/employment. 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? 1. Happiness. 2. Love. 3. Health. 4. Money 5. Fame. 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? A little financial stability so that I can stop going crazy over certain things. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Stressed lol 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Love and fear 7. In one sentence, who are you? Human 8. What do you want to be known for? Still don't know. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Still my community (I assume I'd be moving away with my partner...) 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? With all the things that can happen in a year, who knows. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My partner and one of my old housemates. 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Honesty. Trustworthiness. Community-oriented. 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? A lot of the small things. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? Still top surgery 15. What stands between you and what you want? I still has it 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Still just ride it out. When I feel depressed sometimes I just need to sleep it off and wake up the next day feeling less hopeless. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? Don't know, but after this year death fucking terrifies me. 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Hard to say. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? A lot of anxiety, but I'm working through it. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Not sure. 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? Still unsure. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? Love. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Still pants or shorts 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? My cousin and my grandmother. Some friends that I don't see as often. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Telling my partner I love her for the first time. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Job. 27. If not now, then when? Still a good question! 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Found someone this damn awesome 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? That's it's never too late. That I shouldn't have to compare where I'm at in life to other people because everyone has their own challenges and their own path. 30. What do you want to remember forever? How good it feels being with her. 31. What could society do without? Still don't know where to start... 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Love. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? N/A 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Dance some more. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Too much to list. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? Community houses...too many shit landlords in this world. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? I'd still probably want to tell myself what a trans guy is to save myself the grief of figuring it out much later. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I don't know, but I'd sure as hell be shitting myself. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Almost certainly. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Will I always be this crazy? |
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1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
fix a hip tortion 2. What's been on your mind most lately? graduating from school on dec 18th and being able to have a life again 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? happiness is like orgasms. It's something momentary and fun but to expect it to last all the time is like expecting to have a 24/7 orgasm.I'm not concerned with happiness. I think is a false god to chase. Health - able to work and live a life of active purpose Love - as in friendship, not romantic. That's not necessary to live Money - as in enough to have my basic needs met and feel secure I don't have to worry about food or rent 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? brunch. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? insanely busy 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? school, career 7. In one sentence, who are you? not your fucking mum 8. What do you want to be known for? my skills, my abilities, my humour, my brain. And that I have nice tits. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? i did. So I know the answer. The mountains and the cedar trees 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? VERY. I'll be registered and making five times the amount of money I am now. Literally. I will have time, money, and saving for my own practice 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? me 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? humour, wit, socialist politics 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? dating 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? a jellyfish tank or a pirateboat 15. What stands between you and what you want? nothing right now. I am working my fucking arse off as hard as I can to do it 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? not sure what this means. You mean when I am sad and depressed? Sticky rice with fish and a fabulous movie 17. When did you first realize that life is short? for actual emotional reals, two years ago. Intellectually over a decade ago 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? jesus. everything? But I'd like to have more time and energy so I can have sex. I would love some sex. A lot. 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? that I would put this information on a public board 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? breathe. Many people shouldn't be doing that 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? that I'm scary or intimidating 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? hmn. Tough. If I was kidnapped, tortured and brain washed, that would take away a lot of stuff. My humour? 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? access to a toilet of some kind. No wait. I can pee in the woods. Ok, being in the city and having no access to a toilet 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? my sense of naive adventure, people I knew and really liked 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? to much of a blur, nothing stands out 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? losing the weight I gained from going to school 27. If not now, then when? when I have my first job and can afford to go to the gym and get a trainer for help 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? So. Many. Things. Still being alive. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? That no matter many time I have to pick my self up and start over from scratch, I can do it 30. What do you want to remember forever? ALL of it 31. What could society do without? greedy capitalist arseholes and Tories 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? my skill 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? come see me if you want to know what massage therapy feels like 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? So. Many. Things. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? see above 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? life 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? it will be ok. You are far, far stronger than you know. When it hits as it has in the past, keep going. It will hurt. You'll fall over. But you'll get up. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? "that was weird" 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? oh fuck yes. So has everyone. They are kidding themselves if they think differently. But words are always there and people find them important. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself can I go t bed yet??? |
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1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Fit into the clothes I'm wearing these days.
2. What's been on your mind most lately? Pain 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Health, money, love happiness 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? For my knee to stop hurting. 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? Reflective 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? Good mental health 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am human, too! 8. What do you want to be known for? Perseverance 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? Mexican food. 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Will have mastered a platform at work. 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Me 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Direct, kind, smart 13. What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Being a public speaker or actor 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? A convertible car 15. What stands between you and what you want? Irrational fears 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Accept momentary unhappiness, it will pass. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? When I was 9 or 10 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Being still 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? Abuse 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? Don't vote 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? I'm straight. I'm a bitch. 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My thoughts and feelings. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? Brushing my teeth and cleaning my body. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? My sister 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? A night spent in Hillcrest with some friends. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Master this platform at work. 27. If not now, then when? It's now or never. 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Designed five life-size posters based on Carnival in Italy. I used them as a base for my PostSecret post card project. 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? My level of sensitivity decreases as I conquer fears. Duh. 30. What do you want to remember forever? That first kiss. 31. What could society do without? Assault weapons 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? Who I am and what I need. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? Black lives matter. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Drive on the freeway again. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Traveling alone 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? D.R. 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Own it. 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? It's pronounced O-RAY-MA, not O-REE-MA 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Yep. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? I wonder what time the movie starts? |
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