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Old 07-17-2017, 08:37 PM   #201
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Mel... hold up... let's see what's on the offering table!
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So Mel, is this an inclusionary club or an exclusionary one? I bribe
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Until recently... last couple of years... I didn't know that was an issue ... or in question. Meaning, that one could be a Butch and prefer/accept feminine pronouns and/or also ID as woman/female. I'm assuming... that's what you mean(?)
Well, we like to separate, then come back together. There are male identified butches (cool) and female identified butches (cool) and transmit (cool) and I'm sure there are others, but we are all masculine of center and support each other....right?

My comment wasn't intended to exclude, it was intended to include. I, as a WIB, didn't feel that I fit in the other groups so it is nice to see other people say hey, I'm butch and I'm a woman. I didn't feel I was butch "enough." Now, I'm more comfy in my identity and I am pleased to welcome anyone who is walking a similar path. I'm also pleased to welcome someone walking a different path. I just like to welcome....what can I say?
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But of course! I was looking for some details... we talking.. milk chocolate... dark chocolate... are there nuts?! These are things a Chocolate Loving Butch wants ta know!

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Well, we like to separate, then come back together. There are male identified butches (cool) and female identified butches (cool) and transmit (cool) and I'm sure there are others, but we are all masculine of center and support each other....right?

My comment wasn't intended to exclude, it was intended to include. I, as a WIB, didn't feel that I fit in the other groups so it is nice to see other people say hey, I'm butch and I'm a woman. I didn't feel I was butch "enough." Now, I'm more comfy in my identity and I am pleased to welcome anyone who is walking a similar path. I'm also pleased to welcome someone walking a different path. I just like to welcome....what can I say?
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But of course! I was looking for some details... we talking.. milk chocolate... dark chocolate... are there nuts?! These are things a Chocolate Loving Butch wants ta know!
(looking into knapsack, I find) Oh, lookee a Sampler Box, some Lindt bars, and a Mr. Goodbar. (extending hand holding bag of chocolate googies) Passing knapsack to bouncer as I saunter through the secret club door.
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Oh! I do like a variety!!

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(looking into knapsack, I find) Oh, lookee a Sampler Box, some Lindt bars, and a Mr. Goodbar. (extending hand holding bag of chocolate googies) Passing knapsack to bouncer as I saunter through the secret club door.
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hello comrades, it's the weekend for most of yall but I work in theater so the weekend is another work day for me. the show must go on lol
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Happy Saturday friends,

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