Femme FTM/Genderqueers/Girly-Bois

Captain Franki · 04-30-2011, 04:28 PM

For the most part and most times I ID as varying versions of 'non-female'. Some times that comes with baggage of machoness and overcompansating to which I'm not equipped. Even the term 'transmasculine spectrum' has this built in, in opposition to 'transfeminine' which is usually used by MAAB Trans* people. no matter what we do we recreate binaries again and again.

Anyway. I'm sensitive, I'm camp, I occasionally enjoy crossdressing [read: dressing female] and genderfemmefucking (not that kind of fucking lol) now i've got my head in the right place. i can be wearing the exact same clothes as i used to and yet feel totally different and more in control about it, because its not been forced upon me. I gather this feeling of power and reclamation is similar to how some other femmes feel about it?

Blablah ramble I've not slept nearly 2 days this won't make sequential sense. Where are all my non-female femmes at? My FTMs who watch mean girls and Glee? My bois who prance on tiptoes to tune in their heads? Cry over Disney Films? Heck, cry over a lot of things.

I can't be the only one who's ever rocked a binder and a dress together, or had boxers peeking under a skirt. I know you're on tumblr are there any here?!

On a related note sometimes... :

* not me, i nicked that image off genderfork's tumblr.

The_Lady_Snow · 04-30-2011, 05:08 PM

Is it strictly about clothing?

Captain Franki · 04-30-2011, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Is it strictly about clothing?

no! not at all! i talk about clothes a lot sometimes. sorry i prolly didn't make that clear.

The_Lady_Snow · 04-30-2011, 06:07 PM

I'm gender fluid hence why I asked.

Captain Franki · 04-30-2011, 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I'm gender fluid hence why I asked.

awesome. yeah like people who id as male or neutral of center, but feel and/or express that maleness in effeminate ways.

As the cisnormative less wordsoupy world would see it: the cliched camp gay man, metrosexual, or sensitive guy.

Captain Franki · 04-30-2011, 06:29 PM

i am not going to make any sense tonight so i'm offskis to bed

The_Lady_Snow · 04-30-2011, 06:31 PM

Are we talking identity, fetish, or fluidity in gender?

Captain Franki · 04-30-2011, 07:18 PM

identity.

about identity and expression for the most part. xo

04-30-2011, 04:28 PM	#1
Captain Franki Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FAAB Genderqueer; Camp as Christmas; Utterly Confused; Pokemon Master Preferred Pronoun?: They or any other neutral pronoun Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 37 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 43 Times in 18 Posts Rep Power: 148638	Femme FTM/Genderqueers/Girly-Bois For the most part and most times I ID as varying versions of 'non-female'. Some times that comes with baggage of machoness and overcompansating to which I'm not equipped. Even the term 'transmasculine spectrum' has this built in, in opposition to 'transfeminine' which is usually used by MAAB Trans* people. no matter what we do we recreate binaries again and again. Anyway. I'm sensitive, I'm camp, I occasionally enjoy crossdressing [read: dressing female] and genderfemmefucking (not that kind of fucking lol) now i've got my head in the right place. i can be wearing the exact same clothes as i used to and yet feel totally different and more in control about it, because its not been forced upon me. I gather this feeling of power and reclamation is similar to how some other femmes feel about it? Blablah ramble I've not slept nearly 2 days this won't make sequential sense. Where are all my non-female femmes at? My FTMs who watch mean girls and Glee? My bois who prance on tiptoes to tune in their heads? Cry over Disney Films? Heck, cry over a lot of things. I can't be the only one who's ever rocked a binder and a dress together, or had boxers peeking under a skirt. I know you're on tumblr are there any here?! On a related note sometimes... : * not me, i nicked that image off genderfork's tumblr.

04-30-2011, 05:08 PM	#2
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,119 Times in 15,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Is it strictly about clothing? __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

04-30-2011, 06:07 PM	#4
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,119 Times in 15,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	I'm gender fluid hence why I asked. __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

04-30-2011, 06:31 PM	#7
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,119 Times in 15,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Are we talking identity, fetish, or fluidity in gender? __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

04-30-2011, 06:29 PM	#6
Captain Franki Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FAAB Genderqueer; Camp as Christmas; Utterly Confused; Pokemon Master Preferred Pronoun?: They or any other neutral pronoun Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 37 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 43 Times in 18 Posts Rep Power: 148638	i am not going to make any sense tonight so i'm offskis to bed

04-30-2011, 07:18 PM	#8
Captain Franki Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FAAB Genderqueer; Camp as Christmas; Utterly Confused; Pokemon Master Preferred Pronoun?: They or any other neutral pronoun Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 37 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 43 Times in 18 Posts Rep Power: 148638	identity. about identity and expression for the most part. xo