12-28-2012, 08:41 PM | #1 |
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Very sad tonight. Hubby died 9 years ago today.
Some days it seems like it just happened.
Love each other. Be good to each other. It's so important. Smooches, Keri |
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12-28-2012, 08:43 PM | #2 |
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Sending you a hug, Keri. It is always sad when we lose a loved one...I am certain he is with you in spirt. I know that doesn't make it "better" but perhaps you will find some comfort in knowing he is always in your heart....hugs, my friend...Clay
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It's probably even harder that it happened around the holidays. This time of year is always a time for reflection.
I am so sorry for your loss. (((Hug)))
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Sending you warm thoughts from one who knows what you're going through.
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I' m so sorry for your loss Keri. May his memory be for a blessing.
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12-28-2012, 11:09 PM | #6 |
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I am so sorry for you loss, especially at this time of year. I have anniversaries of losses too and my heart goes out to you.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Keri. Its never easy after they leave us. We never truly get over losing someone so important to us.
I love your words...to me they are about making Now matter and to take every advantage of letting people know they are loved. I will take your words to heart and do exactly that today, with conscious effort.
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Lighting a candle for you tonight. Asking that you recieve added energy and comfort. That sweet memories only come through. And that you are surrounded with love and your hubby's spirit. May you know you are being looked in upon, From your loved one. Blessings to you! .
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Keri,so sorry for yur loss,sending warm thoughts and may his memorie be blessed.
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I'm so sorry Keri ... ((((( Keri )))))
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May your many special memories bring you comfort and strength.
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Our loved ones remain such a huge part of us, as painful as that can be. Its a blessing that you continue to honor that heartspace..
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Dear Ones,
I would like to thank all of you who stopped by my little sad thread a few days ago.So many of you left me a rep or a welcomed posting of support. It really helped me to know y'all were out there sending your thoughts my way. Happy new year, sweet friends, Keri |
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I am so deeply sorry for your loss. If you keep the memories of your love close to your heart, he'll never truly be gone. Happy new year to all of you.
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Keri, I just saw this thread. It is New Years Eve almost 11PM PST. My thoughts are with you. Yes, the heart holds our loved ones forever. ((((Keri)))
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Hugs to you. Losing loved ones hurts no matter how many years.
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{{{{ Keri }}}} I'm so very sorry for your loss and your hurt. My thoughts are with you!
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Keri))))))))))) )))))))))))
You are never alone. I have used this simple quote to close many prayers and meditations of loss: Love never dies, and we never forget. ~ Sun
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