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Old 09-13-2012, 06:04 PM   #21
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welcome

If the corset feels good , do it.
If your too cinched up and can barely breathe , dont.

I think these are sexy

http://www.barenecessities.com/seven...9282XB&search=
24 bucks

with a hint of black lace underneath


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Speaking as someone who loves ligerie, I say go for it! I think it's awesome that you came on here and made a thread to ask opinions and are wanting to please the lust outa your butch... btw hello and welcome to the Planet!!
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PS. Corsets are freakin' hot as hell!! Just sayin'
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If she appreciates you without it, she will also appreciate you with it.

Very good point.
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Thumbs up Toughy is Varsity Butch !

Toughy has said everything I would've and everyone else has covered all the other relevant points. Please know this, your sexual confidence and strength will rock your Butch's world, guaranteed.

Sexual confidence in lingerie/corset with garter belt? --would make my head explode. *Butch Thud* (but the confidence is the key my dear....."act as if"....)

Have a great weekend--please come back next week and let us all know how it went!
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A little wary to report my opinion here being a dude and all...
I think being honest and open about who you are and what you want is so important. If you are comfortable in the corset and enjoy it...then enjoy it.
It your partner has an issue with it...i'd be really surprized if they did.
But, if so, then you learn to be with someone who appreciates and likes what you like. I hope you do what you want and the butch likes it. Smile
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I love this thread!

Dance,

You're already sexy girl, contemplating a corset! Whew! Can I just say, hot!

I'm almost 50, plus size and have lingerie, sexy/lace bra and panty sets and even a corset that I like to wear...for play or just for me, under my clothes. Why not? Who says you gotta save your sexy stuff for your partner...I wear my stuff when I feel sexy and undercover too...lol...why not? Yep, under my dresses, clothes, etc...sometimes, a little peep of knee covered in black fishnet in boots and a dress (weather permitting) it's cool/fun when someone notices all of a sudden there's a double take and a look that says wha?...lol...but what it does to your self confidence! lol...get creative!

Be you're sexy self all the time, Dance...and enjoy being you. I think you're awesome and gutsy and sexy! Go girl!
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Work it!
Sneaking into the bathroom and changing into one of your friends shirts is a good idea too...
I just had a flash of 9 1/2 weeks...
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You're all great! Thanks so much! Just reading all your replies is getting my confidence. I didn't realize until I started dating again just how dowdy I'd gotten over the years - when you're married to someone who no desire to touch you for years, it takes a toll on your confidence, no matter how many excuses you make to yourself. But now? Sorry but screw that nonsense -- I'm totally worth it.

A femme friend just introduced me to Torrid -- va va voom!! there's not one locally but there's one on the way - I think I'll be stopping there tomorrow afternoon to pick up a little something...
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Work it!
Sneaking into the bathroom and changing into one of your friends shirts is a good idea too...
I just had a flash of 9 1/2 weeks...
heehee

Problem is, I've only been to her house once and I have NO idea where she hangs her button shirts.
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While it's true corsets and lace are very sexy, there is a LOT to be said for white cotton...

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While it's true corsets and lace are very sexy, there is a LOT to be said for white cotton...


I am a HUGE fan of pantaloon like cotton women's intimates..
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welcome

If the corset feels good , do it.
If your too cinched up and can barely breathe , dont.
If you can *barely* breathe, your corset is not tight enough

There are a lot of really good suggestions here. My fave is the white, button up shirt with garters and heels. You can literally walk in the door wearing all of it with a skirt. So easy to slip away and change. You cannot drive in a corset and would have to take time to get dressed.

So, if the ease of "getting" ready is a concern, I would stick to the button up shirt.

Here is another idea for you---if she is into football, you may consider getting a jersey for her fave team. Then, present it her later as a wearable memento.

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Some time's simple is better...
look in the closet that would be my first guess... *just being helpful*
Better yet, how about a big RED bow?

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Problem is, I've only been to her house once and I have NO idea where she hangs her button shirts.
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I am a HUGE fan of pantaloon like cotton women's intimates..
Me toooo!! Well, not directly for me but for me to see on her The lingerie too lol... although to read it on my previous post, one might think I meant for me... nah... for her... but for my enjoyment of viewing also... for sure!!

Plain and simple is absolutely sexy hot too... Not always does a lady have to be sinched up and bound... but it sure is nice here and there and in between!!

Yes the plain and simple... I like!!
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I am a HUGE fan of pantaloon like cotton women's intimates..
i am way more comfortable in white cotton intimates and luckily Syr
Likes them too !

i wish i were more comfy in silky things ..

Go for it !!
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My absolute favorite nightgowns are the tissue-thin hand-smocked white cotton gowns that I inherited from my beloved Granny. My ex of course never appreciated them, but I am highly titillated at the idea of some hot butch finding it a total turn-on to see me in my Granny's nighties!
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My absolute favorite nightgowns are the tissue-thin hand-smocked white cotton gowns that I inherited from my beloved Granny. My ex of course never appreciated them, but I am highly titillated at the idea of some hot butch finding it a total turn-on to see me in my Granny's nighties!
How sweet !!!! i soooo love cotton frocks!

my partner would love that so you never know !
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