Big Girl Love - Page 9

nycfem · 09-12-2010, 09:16 AM

Just linking up these two friendly threads

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=418 (Big Girl Love)

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...859#post189859 (BBW)

nycfem · 09-12-2010, 09:40 AM

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTG1kmbg3Xc&p=B2A77A12022CFC70&playnext=1& index=1"]YouTube - Fatspiration #1[/nomedia]

Leigh · 09-14-2010, 12:22 AM

*giving the thread a little bump*

Electrocell · 07-06-2011, 07:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweetfemme247

I know how that is, I get that all the time, your not pretty enough, your to big, your to young, I say kiss my ass.

Hon tell them if they don't like what they see don't look .It will be their loss for not getting to know you.

ScandalAndy · 07-06-2011, 08:42 PM

I'm responding to this hella late, as usual, but the bolded bit below (alliteration, hehehe) really speaks to me. I find that because of my weight I am often immediately placed in the 'friend zone' when meeting potential partners. I also feel like most people don't look at big people as "sexual people", like we're some sort of anatomically devoid dolls that don't think about or have sex, because that's too gross or something. It bugs me, a lot.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

Yes!

Actually what I say is "Kiss my big, fat, fuzzy, lesbian a$$!" Well, now I say saggy instead of fat. But you get the idea.

Princess, I don't understand what the heck they were expecting if you sent them accurate pics...some people are just plain wierd.

Equally annoying are the people who don't want overweight friends.

Or the ones that do - so they feel better about themselves. My former employer actually felt threatened by my weight loss! She equates a person's value to their weight. If I saw a mutual acquaintance and mentioned it to her her first question was about their weight. This included a friend who was recovering from breast cancer. She's very wrapped up in herself. For example - I had lost over 60 lbs and she did not notice until someone brought it to her attention. Then she came to me and said "Someone told me you lost over 60 lbs. Is that true?" I stood up and she nearly fell over.

Do you find that your weight makes you invisible to some people?

Electrocell · 07-06-2011, 08:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ScandalAndy

I'm responding to this hella late, as usual, but the bolded bit below (alliteration, hehehe) really speaks to me. I find that because of my weight I am often immediately placed in the 'friend zone' when meeting potential partners. I also feel like most people don't look at big people as "sexual people", like we're some sort of anatomically devoid dolls that don't think about or have sex, because that's too gross or something. It bugs me, a lot.

Big people are ususally more sensuous and sexual from my experience.

dixie · 07-06-2011, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ScandalAndy

I'm responding to this hella late, as usual, but the bolded bit below (alliteration, hehehe) really speaks to me. I find that because of my weight I am often immediately placed in the 'friend zone' when meeting potential partners. I also feel like most people don't look at big people as "sexual people", like we're some sort of anatomically devoid dolls that don't think about or have sex, because that's too gross or something. It bugs me, a lot.

Agreed. Ha! If they only knew how well we can rock their world! lol

Actually, from my experience, I haven't really had an issue for the most part. Usually, if they have an issue, they aren't someone I would want to date anyway. Hell, even when I was skinny I wasn't skinny. I'm a thick girl, always have been. Yeah, I'd like to be a lil smaller than I am now, but I don't EVER wanna lose my curves.

Electrocell · 07-07-2011, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by dixielady

Agreed. Ha! If they only knew how well we can rock their world! lol

Actually, from my experience, I haven't really had an issue for the most part. Usually, if they have an issue, they aren't someone I would want to date anyway. Hell, even when I was skinny I wasn't skinny. I'm a thick girl, always have been. Yeah, I'd like to be a lil smaller than I am now, but I don't EVER wanna lose my curves.

Curves is always good

.Agree would like to lose a few more pounds myself.

ScandalAndy · 07-11-2011, 10:37 AM

So femmes, where do you shop? Are there any particular styles you feel are complimentary to your curves?

For everyone: what's your favorite thing to wear that makes you feel amazing about yourself?

Electrocell · 11-03-2011, 02:17 AM

Bumping this thread

smouldering · 11-03-2011, 05:51 AM

Good morning to all

I hope everyone is having a good Thursday morning so far, this whole thread has made me smile, I am a full figured curvy girl and although i try to be confident, i have those days where i just feel unattractive, sure i get compliments about being cute, beautiful etc.. and i appreciate that more then you know, but sometimes it is hard to ignore those that say.. you have a pretty face.. BUT or you would be so beautiful if you would lose weight ugh.. i hate that lol..
The older i get the more i've adapted the attitude of if you don't like me for me, curves and all then i have no time for you

.. i am pretty awesome once you get to know me *grins*

Scorp · 11-03-2011, 06:30 AM

Hi,

All I know is that I LOVE women of all sizes, especially voluptuous women. Nothing but pure yumminess.

My honey was having some body issues one day moreso than the norm and not feeling too good about herself. Something she's struggled with for a very long time. Honestly, I love her no matter what size she and she's gorgeous inside and out is and this is a fact.

Unfortunately we live in a society who passes judgement on women, especially big beautiful women and it sucks.

Therefore, I would like to share my story with all you beautiful ladies:

I was actually at my massage spa and waiting for my appt. On the table were some books and this one caught my eye because it had a cute cover with a pig on it. It was called "The Pig of Happiness". I started flipping through the pages and while doing so came to the following pages and I found this to be endearing and beautiful in a cute but meaningful way. I took my cell phone and snapped a picture of it and sent it to my honey just to let her know I love her and her body no matter what.

I think you're all beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Lastly, to my precious, gorgeous wife: You are sexy, and yummy and I'm one lucky bastid

No need for me to say anything else. This speaks for itself.

Rockinonahigh · 11-03-2011, 02:45 PM

My gramps was from old world Italy,he once told grannie even after haveing 8 kids,helping him throughout life no mater what ever sise she was to be happy with her self because she had lived and loved life,to be proud when u look in the morror.

Leigh · 11-03-2011, 03:15 PM

Just passing through and saying just how much I love big girls ~ this guy will always drool over you

LaDivina · 11-03-2011, 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scorp

Lastly, to my precious, gorgeous wife: You are sexy, and yummy and I'm one lucky bastid

No need for me to say anything else. This speaks for itself.

Here's the Pig of Happiness!

I love you, you crazy bastid.

Countyfem · 11-03-2011, 09:36 PM

I have read thru this post and I have to tell you
You gave me back something I let someone take away, my self esteem, to believe that even though I'm a big woman I'm still sexy desirable and somewhere there is someone who will love me for me... all of me.
So from my big ol'Rubenesque heart (now less bruised) I thank you.

clay · 11-03-2011, 09:48 PM

Work it, Lady!!! OWN it...WEAR it...WALK it...STRUT it.....give it your all...for YOU are truly captivating...just being YOU!!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Countyfem

I have read thru this post and I have to tell you
You gave me back something I let someone take away, my self esteem, to believe that even though I'm a big woman I'm still sexy desirable and somewhere there is someone who will love me for me... all of me.
So from my big ol'Rubenesque heart (now less bruised) I thank you.

Leigh · 11-03-2011, 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by claybaby

Work it, Lady!!! OWN it...WEAR it...WALK it...STRUT it.....give it your all...for YOU are truly captivating...just being YOU!!!

My buddy here Clay said it perfectly and I second that motion as well

Electrocell · 11-04-2011, 03:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smouldering

Good morning to all

I hope everyone is having a good Thursday morning so far, this whole thread has made me smile, I am a full figured curvy girl and although i try to be confident, i have those days where i just feel unattractive, sure i get compliments about being cute, beautiful etc.. and i appreciate that more then you know, but sometimes it is hard to ignore those that say.. you have a pretty face.. BUT or you would be so beautiful if you would lose weight ugh.. i hate that lol..
The older i get the more i've adapted the attitude of if you don't like me for me, curves and all then i have no time for you

.. i am pretty awesome once you get to know me *grins*

Good for you.

msW8ing · 11-04-2011, 03:17 AM

Popping to say Happy Friday to one and A/all..yayyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!

09-14-2010, 12:22 AM	#163
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07-11-2011, 10:37 AM	#169
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11-03-2011, 02:17 AM	#170
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11-03-2011, 05:51 AM	#171
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11-03-2011, 02:45 PM	#173
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09-12-2010, 09:16 AM	#161
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09-12-2010, 09:40 AM	#162
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11-03-2011, 06:30 AM	#172
Scorp Italian Stallion How Do You Identify?: DNA Usually... Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: In a van, down by the river.. Posts: 2,702 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,557 Thanked 4,721 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hi, All I know is that I LOVE women of all sizes, especially voluptuous women. Nothing but pure yumminess. My honey was having some body issues one day moreso than the norm and not feeling too good about herself. Something she's struggled with for a very long time. Honestly, I love her no matter what size she and she's gorgeous inside and out is and this is a fact. Unfortunately we live in a society who passes judgement on women, especially big beautiful women and it sucks. Therefore, I would like to share my story with all you beautiful ladies: I was actually at my massage spa and waiting for my appt. On the table were some books and this one caught my eye because it had a cute cover with a pig on it. It was called "The Pig of Happiness". I started flipping through the pages and while doing so came to the following pages and I found this to be endearing and beautiful in a cute but meaningful way. I took my cell phone and snapped a picture of it and sent it to my honey just to let her know I love her and her body no matter what. I think you're all beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Lastly, to my precious, gorgeous wife: You are sexy, and yummy and I'm one lucky bastid No need for me to say anything else. This speaks for itself.

11-03-2011, 03:15 PM	#174
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11-03-2011, 09:36 PM	#176
Countyfem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NC Posts: 244 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 469 Thanked 932 Times in 211 Posts Rep Power: 9455031	I have read thru this post and I have to tell you You gave me back something I let someone take away, my self esteem, to believe that even though I'm a big woman I'm still sexy desirable and somewhere there is someone who will love me for me... all of me. So from my big ol'Rubenesque heart (now less bruised) I thank you.

11-04-2011, 03:17 AM	#180
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