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Old 11-08-2010, 06:29 PM   #1
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Don't you hate it when you are in a relationship and they end it through an Email??
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Yes that has happen to me before I called it being a coward
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I do. It is immature and is a totally inappropriate way to end a relationship! People all people deserve consideration and respect especially in these intimate matters.
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SORRY That is the worst!! I would rather have someone tell me its over. Email seems unresolved. BLAH!


This only means one thing...You can definitely do better!
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Yikes, never had it happen.

I guess they thought they couldn't do it face to face?

Maybe they were worried about the reaction and did not want to deal with the drama?

Maybe they can't handle confrontation?

Maybe it's long distance and they can't see you face to face?

At least you got a notification it was over..


I don't know, sorry this happened to ya'll.
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Old 11-08-2010, 07:11 PM   #7
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Yikes... however, In my case I think that would of been way better than what happened to me. I guess we need to really be sure who we are dealing with.

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Yikes... however, In my case I think that would of been way better than what happened to me. I guess we need to really be sure who we are dealing with.

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Yikes... however, In my case I think that would of been way better than what happened to me. I guess we need to really be sure who we are dealing with.




Does One Ever Really Know Who The Other One Is.. I Don't Think So,
A Lot Of People Wear So Many Masks, It's Sad and VERY Scary..
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Does One Ever Really Know Who The Other One Is.. I Don't Think So,
A Lot Of People Wear So Many Masks, It's Sad and VERY Scary..
You are so correct on that.
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You save a coupon for months and months until you actually need it, for something like lemon pledge, and go to use it only to find that, it's a 50 cent off coupon when you buy 5 or more. WTF ??? Who in the world needs 5 cans of lemon pledge. Heck it took me 2 years to use the first can. That coupon isn't worth the paper it's written on.
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i hate it when i ivite a femme over to watch movies and she picks a chik flic that she has seen 20xs then sobs threw the whole thing.. ill pick the movies next time!
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When you wake up off and on throughout the night because you don't feel good and there is no one there to rub your head... Just when I think I have this crud beat...
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Just got over that.. found the source of the problem and now all better!
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i hate it when i ivite a femme over to watch movies and she picks a chik flic that she has seen 20xs then sobs threw the whole thing.. ill pick the movies next time!
It is a test, you know....

To see how sensitive you are.....
To see if you can figure out how to comfort her.....
To check your endurance for the expression of emotion....

There are many acceptable responses but,
offering to pick the movie next time isnt a good one.
Neither is falling asleep during the chik flick.
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Don't you hate it when you've only quit smoking 4 days earlier and this feels like something to slit your wrists over?

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Don't you hate it when you are sound asleep toasty, cozy warm and having a really great dream.. and suddenly you have to pee so bad it hurts but you don't wanna wake up?


Don't you hate it when someone gets mad at you, deletes you off of FB and has a mini temper tantrum because they've sent you texts to your phone that you're ignoring but in reality THEY forgot your cell was turned off? lol
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