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My breasts are tender too. (no this is not a comeon lol). My doctor reccommended not drinking or eating anything with caffeine one week prior to the mammo and it seems to work!
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I don't drink caffeinated drinks or anything besides water usually. After menopause this happens. Sometimes it's lifelong, sometimes not. I'm hoping not. HRT relieves it, but that's not going to happen. Another reason to have them removed.
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going to get mammo hopefully soon whenever the god damn breast center calls, its in hackensack, NJ and its busy too!!
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Demystifying Breast Pain: The Actual Diagnosis of Painful Breasts or Mastalgia Breast Pain: What to Expect Cyclical Usually bilateral (both breasts) and felt around the upper outer layers of breasts and is associated with lumpiness. Dull and nagging, often radiating to the arm pit. Non- Cyclical Typically unilateral. Maybe constant or irregular, acute burning pain felt in the area below the nipple. Alleviating Breast Pain Most often, breast pain isn't too severe and fades away in a few days without medication. For more severe cases, topical NSIAD's and pain killers are prescribed. For Mastitis without abscess, antibiotics are recommended. Self remedial ways to palliate breast pain are: Diet Changes Avoid Fatty Food Intake: Hydrogenated fats obstruct the formation of Gamma Linolenic Acid, a chemical that stops breast pain. Reduction of fatty foods thus helps relieve the pain. Limit Caffeine: Caffeine contains methlyxanthine that stimulates breast tissue and causes pain. Keeping a check on caffeine intake, especially before periods is helpful. Reduce Salt Intake: Excess salt retains fluid in the body and this could increase pain. Support Breasts Wearing a properly fitted bra and avoiding high impact exercises is essential. It is advisable to avoid wearing under-wired bras before periods. Medication Seek medical advice and then go off or change preparation of oral contraceptives or hormone replacement therapy, as changes in hormones may increase pain. Learn To Relax Being calm and relaxed reduces the impact of stress related hormones on breast pain. Others Use cold or hot compress to soothe the pain. Next Steps Breast pain is rarely an indication of breast cancer. However, depending on the cause and severity of one's pain, it is advisable to chart out a follow up routine with your health care provider, which may include routine mammograms. Breast infections generally require a follow up in 24-48 hours. A startling truth is that Mastitis does not cause cancer, but cancer can mimic Mastitis. Therefore it is important to track your pain, get all tests done to rule out cancer and relieve yourself of the anxiety caused by breast pain. Demystifying Breast Pain: The Actual Diagnosis of Painful Breasts or Mastalgia |
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This is a great thread. I lost my Grandmother years ago to Breast Cancer. I have a very close friend that is losing her battle to Cancer that started in her breasts. It is very important that we take care of our Meeps!
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Usually bilateral (both breasts) and felt around the upper outer layers of breasts and is associated with lumpiness. Dull and nagging, often radiating to the arm pit. Non- Cyclical Typically unilateral. Maybe constant or irregular, acute burning pain felt in the area below the nipple. Maybe it is not fibro pain there..... thank you for this Tommi!!!
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Tommi, mammo centers should pay you for this or we should!!!
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Hope your second mammogram was good and the dr's didn't find anything. Hugs my friend, Zimmy Quote:
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I had my first mammogram at 35 and did it because my mom kept telling md to go. I don't like dr's, but since my mom had a partial hysterectomy at 31 and my aunt having a full hysterectomy at 34. The dr's gave me a clean bill of health and told to come back when I am 40.
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JustJo, thank you for starting this thread! Keeping my fingers crossed and patiently waiting till we hear your good results!!
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Almost a year ago I found a lump while doing a self examine in the shower. It was a definite lump. No matter how many times I felt for it, it was still there. I can't even list the emotions I went through while awaiting a mammogram.
I get them about every year. I was emotionally frightened and had just seen a good friend go through a radical mastectomy. It was a scary scary time. I got an ultra sound and it was found to be a cycst. But the fear and realizing how, as a femme, how important my breasts are to me. I love them. I get a mammogram and a pap smear every year. Every. Year.
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It is so important to understand... what might show up on one test, might actually show different on another test or not at all.
My Story (brief) - Multiple Tumors - Multiple Biopsy's - This one different. Lump around 2:00 shows up on Mammogram and U/S Thought probably just a cyst - but my doctors are aggressive and biopsy everything, including benign appearing cysts. Schedule 2 days later for Biopsy - Cannot locate the mass on U/S 2 days later. The head of Imaging place puts me in an MRI immediately (without approval from Ins.) They find a mass (not seen on mammo or u/s), but it appears different. They will need to do a different type of Biopsy (not a core biopsy). Two days later have Stereotactic Biopsy. The tissue looks nothing like my other biopsies (this would be my 10th or so) The color is gray not pink. I remember saying to Kevin... This tissue looks ugly. He always told me immediately how my tissue looked, but we both knew this one was off - My partner (at the time) was with me during the biopsy and felt same. Get the phone call that this is showing positive for a Phyllodes Tumor on biopsy. Phyllodes Tumors present like a Fibroid Adenoma - most labs are not equipped or trained to even catch them. Phyllodes Tumors (rare) once they turn malignant are very ugly. There really is no treatment for them. The treatment for a benign Phyllodes is a Partial Mastectomy with WIDE Margins and if it returns a complete mastectomy. Which is why you must demand to have different types of tests. There are certain tumors which will never show up on a Mammo / U/S or even an MRI - This is why I have all three tests done every year. And as far as doing a biopsy on everything. Damn RIGHT! I am currently watching a lump in my breast -- but, it is not growing - it has remained the same for six months. BUT - If I tell them... Biopsy the fucker, for my peace of mind, they will do it. Maybe that is bad doctoring - but emotions are just as important. And it’s my body for god sake. On to another subject. If you want to have someone with you during your biopsy or even an U/S or an MRI – by all means, that is YOUR RIGHT. I have never been alone for a biopsy. They will tell you NO, and you will tell them YES. If you have to go high up the food chain, then so be it. Now five years later – I am waiting for reconstructive surgery – though… I most recently had a dream that they botched up my surgery and am thinking… Maybe I will keep my little deformed left breast.
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