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Blade 09-09-2012 10:37 AM

yup, love to cuddle, snuggle, nuzzle, hug squeeze. I'm very attentive and very much a touch person. I enjoy the sensations I get from cuddling. I'm not talking about sexual sensations. I mean like the sense of nurturing and being nurtured. We see cuddling/snuggling etc in most social animals and especially in primates and animals who have a social hiarchy. I think for most it is emotionally essentual. I know it is for me.

Leigh 09-09-2012 10:56 AM

That's exactly how it is for me too Blade :)

Cid 09-09-2012 11:03 AM

I love to cuddle but it's been so long that I really think that I need that right now. It's like hugging when you're laying down. I'm a hugger too!

Leigh 09-09-2012 11:17 AM

Yay for all of us :)

Abigail Crabby 09-09-2012 11:29 AM

I love cuddling, hugging, snuggling etc.

But then when it's time to sleep - I need my own side of the bed lol

laruss 09-09-2012 11:31 AM

I love to cuddle, to hug, to touch, and to be close to someone I love.

What I don't like is when someone I don't want to touch me seems to think it is perfectly acceptable to invade my space, my body. If you have to constantly tell someone to back off, there is a problem.

There needs to be an understanding between the two people involved and I really think that there needs to be a touch compatibility. If you are a cuddler/toucher and the other person is not it really can't work long term, because someone is not getting their needs met.

Leigh 09-09-2012 11:41 AM

i'm so glad to see everyone here :)

Electrocell 09-09-2012 11:46 AM

Yes cuddle in bed until your about asleep or they are then roll over lol. Unless it's a cold night then you snuggle for warmth :D .

sara-bera 09-09-2012 11:51 AM

Yes, I adore it! I think I actually sort of require cuddling, really!

The_Lady_Snow 09-09-2012 11:54 AM

Social Cuddler
 
Only during scenes..... I'm a cuddly mother fucker then....

Leigh 09-09-2012 11:56 AM

I require lots of cuddling, but that's just me :)

The_Lady_Snow 09-09-2012 12:04 PM

Bouncing off a post
 
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Originally Posted by laruss (Post 650263)
I love to cuddle, to hug, to touch, and to be close to someone I love.

What I don't like is when someone I don't want to touch me seems to think it is perfectly acceptable to invade my space, my body. If you have to constantly tell someone to back off, there is a problem.

There needs to be an understanding between the two people involved and I really think that there needs to be a touch compatibility. If you are a cuddler/toucher and the other person is not it really can't work long term, because someone is not getting their needs met.


Agreed on the understanding and negotiation of how much of my space you (general) think you are going to suck up. It is not a good idea to hook up, fuck, have a relationship with someone who doesn't find *cuddling* necessary to feel ok.

Negotiating touch and what's a healthy boundary so that neither party feel suffocated is a good idea when it comes to this kind of thing.

Great points laruss!!

Beloved 09-09-2012 12:13 PM

Cuddling is a little bit on heaven here on Earth.

princessbelle 09-09-2012 12:21 PM

Good point about boundaries.

I am very cuddly and touchy feely and huggy. But, i also respect boundaries. I won't just grab you and pull you in for a bear hug if i don't know you, or if i know you are a type of person that needs space.

Inclination, intuition, respect and ques are important when thinking about personal space of others.

Common courtesy comes to mind.


SleepyButch 09-09-2012 12:25 PM

I had someone give me a hug the other day and when I went to release, she didn't. So I hugged tighter. I realized at that time how good it felt to be embraced. I had not felt that in awhile.

I like to do the holding but I do like to be held as well.

Zimmeh 09-09-2012 12:59 PM

Hehe...I've the drool lean in Ruff a few times :)

Zimmeh

Quote:

Originally Posted by -Red-Flag- (Post 649903)
snuggles, cuddles, lean ins ... all of the above.. even the drool lean cause she fell asleep on you.



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