Corky, Arwen - you don't have to care. Do you care that I care?
And I did not once mention the word "feminist in any single one of my posts, nor did I call anyone a "bad" anything.
Oh, and P.S. I don't care one jot what Cynthia and her partner call themselves or each other. None of my business. What I do care about is the discourse, especially in queer communities, about female identities. That is my business. And even if it isn't, I will continue to stick my nose in it anyway.