Thank you Superfemme!!
I wasn't really sure how to word my response and you did it perfectly. When first discussing my dynamic with my cousin I found she was coming from a vanilla lack of knowledge perspective and assumed just this. I will never forget how terribly upset she got over it and how I spent the afternoon educating her on just the opposite of her perspective. Her blurred view created her much anguish. Now she spends lots of time asking questions about our dynamic. She loves loves loves my Ms!!!
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Originally Posted by SuperFemme
Sweet? I don't think being forced to submit to *anything* as a child/adult equate to submissive as it pertains to this conversation.
I totally love your posts and what you have to say, but it is precisely this kind of thing that perpetuates false information about what a sub/boi actually IS.
It is dangerous to blur the line, don't you think?
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