I guess I still don't understand this because I don't believe you should feel like this....
"you're only beautiful and desirable if you're skinny, blonde and fit some standard media notion of beauty."
People can crush celebrities all they want, its not like going their going to
end up with them. And the deal breaker is....just because they're gorgeous or famous, does in no way set a standard as to what is beautiful...at least not for me. I thought it was all in play, anyway, until it finally it came down to agreeing as to who was hot on the A-lists. Pretty people can't help being pretty physically. But.....
Who gives a shit? I don't.
Every body is attracted/attractive to somebody in this world...and for reasons beyond beauty. And there are dozens of them.
I'm sorry your sensibilities got knocked about.
If I were you, I'd go back in the thread anytime you want and let on that there's a tall, cool glass of water out there
for you...
because of you.
cya around
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Originally Posted by JustJo
Hi Jet 
I don't have an issue with celebrities or crushes...and I agree that a crush is a crush regardless of age.
Speaking only for myself, I don't spend time in the other thread because I have had far too much pain around the "you're only beautiful and desirable if you're skinny, blonde and fit some standard media notion of beauty." I'm not...I never have been...and I never will be. It took me a long time to embrace my own beauty...and it's still easily shaken by too much fawning over the likes of 20 something stars.
That's just me...and I'm not saying anyone is wrong for liking what they like...I just choose not to hang around it and feel the thumb jamming that old button down, that's all.
AtLast...embrace those wrinkles...I have no doubt you earned them.
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