01-31-2011, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by JustJo
I think there are many, many things that can be defined as sex...and I can't imagine a condition that would preclude all of them.
If my partner was unable to participate in a particular kind of sex because of a medical condition or injury...no problem. I have a great imagination. 
What I would "dump" a partner for is a continual lack of any desire to engage in sex of any kind with me. For me, that's the deal killer. It isn't whether someone can handle any specific act...it's the unwillingness or lack of desire to engage in anything at all. |
I think that comes down to communication. There are folks with mental health issues such as chronic depression, who for many reasons do not want sex. I think that there are extenuating circumstances that befall many couples, so for me to make blanket statements about sex being the deal breaker, it is just not justified.
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Last edited by Corkey; 01-31-2011 at 08:47 PM.
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