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					Originally Posted by  sassy_girl
					 
				 
				It is true, most poly relationships consist of  one Dominant who will choose to bring a new partner in, pretty much whenever they want to. 
			
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 i really don't see this. i am not sure i have ever seen someone bring in a new person to a family without any preparation or negotiation, whether they "can" or not. i imagine it happens, but . . .  
And most poly isn't D/s either.