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Old 07-25-2011, 09:53 AM   #5
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Originally Posted by apocalipstic View Post
How exciting! It seems like you are reading my mind lately Sachita

I have tried the Poly thing a couple of times and while things did not work out, I can see where with the right combination of people it could be wonderful and filled with love and respect and harmony and freedom.

I like the idea of the Poly family more than living alone and seeing several people....which I have also done.

Maybe it is that I am not close with or to my own family.

But the idea of having more than one person to share my life with in a family setting sounds wonderful. or to be in a family setting with one person and us have other partners who are agreed on and come and go would work too.

I have no clue how it will play out, but I am so excited to have a place to discuss and ponder the infinite possibilities!
Thank you for sharing. Yes, there are wonderful perks about it.

Sooooo what's the difference between a group of like minds forming a family without the sexual intimacy? What truly defines poly?

For instant let's say myself and 4 others get together, manage a household, eat together, hang out like friends, plan together and share responsibilities. We own property together, make all decisions collectively, yadda yadda... the only thing we don't do is fuck. We go to our bedrooms, sometimes we cuddle as friends but we don't bump. Are we poly?

Thanks everyone!
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