A look at Polygamy - Future Family Model

Sachita · 07-25-2011, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by apocalipstic

How exciting! It seems like you are reading my mind lately Sachita

I have tried the Poly thing a couple of times and while things did not work out, I can see where with the right combination of people it could be wonderful and filled with love and respect and harmony and freedom.

I like the idea of the Poly family more than living alone and seeing several people....which I have also done.

Maybe it is that I am not close with or to my own family.

But the idea of having more than one person to share my life with in a family setting sounds wonderful. or to be in a family setting with one person and us have other partners who are agreed on and come and go would work too.

I have no clue how it will play out, but I am so excited to have a place to discuss and ponder the infinite possibilities!

Thank you for sharing. Yes, there are wonderful perks about it.

Sooooo what's the difference between a group of like minds forming a family without the sexual intimacy? What truly defines poly?

For instant let's say myself and 4 others get together, manage a household, eat together, hang out like friends, plan together and share responsibilities. We own property together, make all decisions collectively, yadda yadda... the only thing we don't do is fuck. We go to our bedrooms, sometimes we cuddle as friends but we don't bump. Are we poly?

Thanks everyone!

girl_dee · 07-25-2011, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

Thank you for sharing. Yes, there are wonderful perks about it.

Sooooo what's the difference between a group of like minds forming a family without the sexual intimacy? What truly defines poly?

For instant let's say myself and 4 others get together, manage a household, eat together, hang out like friends, plan together and share responsibilities. We own property together, make all decisions collectively, yadda yadda... the only thing we don't do is fuck. We go to our bedrooms, sometimes we cuddle as friends but we don't bump. Are we poly?

Thanks everyone!

Polyamory is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

Cuddlying is intimate to me, so YES !

Polygamy, however is not the same, to me.

girl_dee · 07-25-2011, 10:43 AM

polyamorous:

pertaining to partipation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships

Polygamy: is a marriage which includes more than two partners

Sachita · 07-25-2011, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by sassy_girl

polyamorous:

pertaining to partipation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships

Polygamy: is a marriage which includes more than two partners

ok- see I didn't really know that.

Glenn · 07-25-2011, 11:28 AM

An extremely successful alpha femme I do business with has five wives. She' s currently sleeping with number five, but she still does her best to maintain emotional and financial responsibility for all of the others as well. She has purchased homes for them etc., and even though they have other lovers also, she does'nt seem to mind. They also celebrate together on special occassions just like one family.

Sachita · 07-25-2011, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by popcorninthesofa

An extremely successful alpha femme I do business with has five wives. She' s currently sleeping with number five, but she still does her best to maintain emotional and financial responsibility for all of the others as well. She has purchased homes for them etc., and even though they have other lovers also, she does'nt seem to mind. They also celebrate together on special occassions just like one family.

I want a few wives.

I need a few wives (Butch trapped in femme body?) and a butch boi. OMG the boi could be our toy.

But seriously I think a wife or two would work for me

It sounds like she has a harem and not a poly family. lol But hell I don't make any rules

Glenn · 07-25-2011, 11:36 AM

I've been married for thirty-five years and one is enough for me!

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