i am poly, but i am a submissive to both of the other people in the relationship. They are married to one another. They are both women, one butch and one femme.
i am not like Sassy in that i am not another partner. i also don't live with them.
Poly has been good for me. My last two relationships were poly. Poly works when the relationships work, i find. Just like any other relationship. If you are getting your needs met and are having a good time, the poly drama is usually not that distracting. If things aren't working out, it's just one more damn thing to make it miserable.
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