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					Originally Posted by  betenoire
					 
				 
				If Caroline loses her sex drive (because she was depressed, because she had had a hysterectomy, because because because) and Jonathan decides to cheat on her (With Judith or Samuel or Blake) because his sexual needs are not being met - I certainly hope that everybody who thinks I am mean today because I say there is no set of circumstances that justifies cheating remembers to dote on Jonathan and be understanding. 
			
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 Bentenoire, 
 
I appreciate your hard stance on this subject. But might I remind you unless you are IN the shoes of these people you will never begin to know and undeerstand how it is for them. You are a very strong person and I commend you for the view you have, that you yourself would never dream of cheating. 
 
Nobody is here to change your thoughts and views!  
 
What I see is some people with compassion and willing to share their life. Perhaps they are reaching out for guidance from us? Or maybe just an ear to get it off their chest. 
 
I for one am not judging these people. Jesus I wasn't ever perfect growing up and still am not perfect.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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