Quote:
Originally Posted by HoustonHuny
In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves.Buddha
Years ago, I took a conflict management for women course for my job. I learned that conflict is inevitable and if you repress your anger or hold it in, it will come out eventually as passive-aggressive behavior. So, I try to get it out on the table and talk about it, keeping in mind the above quote.
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i like this from houstonhunny.
sometimes we need to be in the moment of anger. it may very well be our stand-up for ourselves time.
say what we feel
but we know there's a line. we certainly can't let it get to mental and physical abuse.
and, sometimes we need to just walk away.
balance.
i wish you well, sassy.