I'm femme and I like to initiate!
Actually I like us both to initiate but I think I tend to do it more. I
love initiating and I know he'll never turn me down, it's perfect
I've been in relationships where my gf's have resented me being highly sexed and that was awful, frustrating for me and really damaging for the relationship. For that reason if my hubbie wants sex and I don't, I'll at least consider it. I'd hate for him to feel he can't ask.