VANILLA THREAD Who can initiate sex in your relationship? VANILLA THREAD

Quintease · 01-05-2012, 06:12 PM

I'm femme and I like to initiate!

Actually I like us both to initiate but I think I tend to do it more. I love initiating and I know he'll never turn me down, it's perfect

I've been in relationships where my gf's have resented me being highly sexed and that was awful, frustrating for me and really damaging for the relationship. For that reason if my hubbie wants sex and I don't, I'll at least consider it. I'd hate for him to feel he can't ask.

Sassy · 01-05-2012, 06:23 PM

I am femme. I prefer a relationship where either (or all) partners may initiate sex -- often and spontaneously!

Glenn · 01-05-2012, 11:56 PM

Stone-Butch Top Dominant. A fighting b**** got the job done.

01-05-2012, 06:12 PM	#1
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	I'm femme and I like to initiate! Actually I like us both to initiate but I think I tend to do it more. I love initiating and I know he'll never turn me down, it's perfect I've been in relationships where my gf's have resented me being highly sexed and that was awful, frustrating for me and really damaging for the relationship. For that reason if my hubbie wants sex and I don't, I'll at least consider it. I'd hate for him to feel he can't ask. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

01-05-2012, 11:56 PM	#3
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dear ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old G Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,601 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Stone-Butch Top Dominant. A fighting b**** got the job done. __________________ 1 Kings 19:12

01-05-2012, 06:23 PM	#2
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,929 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641164	I am femme. I prefer a relationship where either (or all) partners may initiate sex -- often and spontaneously!