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Old 03-30-2012, 12:04 AM   #48
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Originally Posted by Quintease View Post
Yes but did individual lesbians have a choice? Invariably no. Butches all looked butch and femmes all looked femme. It was a very heteronormative and rigid way of establishing identity, particularly if you wanted to get laid. I imagine many lesbians today would be stumped were they to be asked to pick a side (remembering that dress back then also corresponded to sexual activity far more than it does today).
Excellent point!!! See, I love your posts.
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