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Silverseastar · 04-11-2012, 09:20 PM

I would date someone with different beliefs but not with different VALUES. Beliefs are relative and change over time but values are fixed and won't change.

So someone can believe what they like and as their partner you can see that shift over time but what they value will never change. Just as what they don't value won't change either.

For instance I value good communication, kindness, love in action, family/friends as examples. The way in which I hold those doesn't change for me over time.

However how that is expressed might.

04-11-2012, 09:20 PM	#1
Silverseastar Member How Do You Identify?: femme, submissive, girl Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver BC Posts: 133 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 348 Thanked 492 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 3095523	I would date someone with different beliefs but not with different VALUES. Beliefs are relative and change over time but values are fixed and won't change. So someone can believe what they like and as their partner you can see that shift over time but what they value will never change. Just as what they don't value won't change either. For instance I value good communication, kindness, love in action, family/friends as examples. The way in which I hold those doesn't change for me over time. However how that is expressed might.