[Kobi]

Originally Posted by Beloved

I don't think you are understanding my point. It's fine if you want a 1950's housewife that does NOT work outside the home. My complaint is wanting a 1950's housewife AND expect her to work outside the home. That is my complaint. I think it's unfair to try to have it both ways.

If it works for somebody, I guess that's alright. I would feel taken advantage of, personally.

I think I understood you well. You are not someone who would want to be in a relationship where you were expected to both June Cleaver AND work outside of the home. I may not have connected the dots the right way tho in my response.

The point was "people" not "ids" have certain preferences, wants, desires, ideals, expectations etc when it comes to relationships. Different stuff works for different people. Some stuff that works for others would drive me absolutely nuts. Some things I might want might make others feel unuseful or whatever.

Sometimes, I think we come to believe, in this case, that butches are a dying breed, cuz we cant find that person who compliments what we, personally, are looking for. We might find "the look" but we have trouble finding "the right person".