Thank you for the following Vintage and Uniques and everybody else posting in regards to what you find attractive in FTMs!
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Originally Posted by VintageFemme
Their courage, strength of heart & spirit, the will to be true to who they are in the face of much bigotry, adversity and misunderstanding. And physically for me, just their sheer hottiness. Mhmmm.
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Originally Posted by Uniqueswtfemm
The honesty they share, the emotions they have about themselves, the energy they project.
Ranch house is a plus as well
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Brute it is a great thing that many FTMs are aware where they come from and the steps it takes to get to a comfortable place within oneself knowing and feeling all they do with regards to feminism and what it is like to be a female in this world. You say Julie has played a major role in your alignment and how you feel in regards to the journey, and your Mom called you "son." I have to say many femmes in my life and friends have helped me along this journey as well. They have pointed out things to me about myself that made me realize who I am and who I am to become. This helps immensely in gaining one's confidence and moving along the journey to become a FTM and align ones body perhaps and spirit to match how one may feel.
Your post definitely was not a derail.. maybe on the current discussion happening here but most definitely is what the thread is all about, FTMs and the attraction of them. Thanks for your sentiments.
My question for FTMs (in regards to attraction) is :
Have people in your life helped you along that journey we make as FTMs in realizing, aligning, transforming, etc? ..
and for others:
Have you been able to help FTMs with their journey in realizing, aligning, transforming, and how has it affected or changed them or yourself?
For me, it's comments like the above, people that understand where we come from and how we feel, acceptance, and this thread in general that help someone such as myself move about comfortably in this life being who I am.
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Originally Posted by BrutalDyke
Okay, got Ursula parked for the night, finally.
DMV, Julie pretty much hit the nail on the head with the use of the word shame, for me.
There were specific incidents, growing up as a female but feeling/knowing something just was not right with me, that caused the shame. It's not something I'll talk about out in the open but it's not something I will put away forever either because it is a part of the journey I've taken to get here. I gotta take the good with the bad. Lol.
I can honestly say that Julie has played a very very major role in me finally being totally okay with aligning my outside with my inside. I don't think she realizes that though. A lot of it comes from the religious upbringing and family that I come from. Yet they all adore Julie. Hell my own granny forced us to have a shot gun wedding at her house. My mom, in the past year or two, has started calling me, "her son". Most of the above has happened because they see that someone like me, a FTM, can be loved and accepted by another. That I'm not just some freak of nature or worse yet, someone who enjoys "dancing with the Devil" just to be the black sheep of the family.
Oh lordy, that was a derail if there ever was one but felt the need to share that. I guess what it boils down to is this.... I am so damn grateful for threads like this because it's nice to be reminded every now and then why someone like myself could and would be appreciated, and not just by their lover/wife/spouse/partner or family. 
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oyyyy not sure how June Cleaver and all her glory got in this thread, same as 50s, and kink. . I understand there are FTMs that enjoy 50s lifestyle, kink, etc.. but still, what attracks people to FTMs? June Cleaver probably is not a fan of FTMs.. Not all FTMs are into the 50s lifestyle or kink, but would this be something you (you general) need in an FTM to find them attractive? For me, that would just be a part of their lifestyle and not what defines them or maybe it does define them, hell I don't know. I guess that's another thread, maybe?
