11-06-2013, 09:46 PM
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#8
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Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
dee
Relationship Status:
Hitched up
Join Date: Nov 2009
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Quote:
Originally Posted by DapperButch
Dee, help me understand...total sincerity here. Explain how you being a submissive, deferring to your Sir/Syr 24/7 is not more deferential than simply taking a person's name? I mean, that IS the dynamic, no? You submit (defer), to her.
Of course, I see nothing wrong with your relationship/dynamic, I am just trying to understand why you would see taking your Syr/Sir's name (if you married) as fitting in with being a "misogynistic tradition" (and therefore problematic), when your daily dynamic includes your deferring to her?
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Do you equate a femme taking the butches name as being deferential to that butch?
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