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Originally Posted by Kelt
I think the last few posts pretty much sum up what I was getting at with romance. It's a spectrum from zero to sixty.
If I showed up with flowers I'd...
1. scare off Cupcake
2. piss off Martina
3. get a date with Sleepy 
When what I'd really be meaning is; I'm showing interest and wanting to make a good impression. (NOT asking for sex or proposing marriage though)
If I'm head over heels I'll fix your car, because like the socks in the night, it's how I show genuine caring.
Princessbelle is right that communication is key because there are so many ways to get things wrong; or right but you just don't know it. |
Yeah, I'm not big on romance, either. It makes me itchy. When someone brings flowers, especially early in the dating relationship, I sometimes wonder if they're trying to buy me. If I don't wonder about that, I end up feeling nervous that they're too invested too quickly. It's easy to scare me off.