04-08-2018, 01:47 AM
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Good because the purpose of the thread isn't to judge others.
Opening post - bold is my emphasis:
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Originally Posted by Ender
I've been in this weird state in between trans male and butch female and was wondering if I could get some insight from those who are butch females.
I've been actively questioning for about 5-6 years now, and I've been always going back and forth between the two. The part of me that thinks I'm a trans male is that I express myself in a more masculine manner (however, butch women also do), I pack and bind, and would prefer to compress my chest and would like the option to go shirtless (though, who doesn't). I like male and neutral pronouns, and I am seen by the majority of people as male.
I'm not out to anyone, so I can't really ask someone to call me by my preferred name/pronouns, but I have been trying this online. I've always chose to present myself as male or masculine online (in games, forums, etc) and I was just wondering if this was common amongst other butch women.
There have also been times as a child where I've had thoughts about how I would go about telling people what happened to [given name] if I were to present as male and go by a male name. I also wondered, when I was 9-10, if other girls hated being girls also.
I don't know, I'm just really confused.
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Originally Posted by JDeere
Same with myself
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