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Old 09-03-2010, 12:47 AM   #1
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Heck yeah, I said "HOT" and here's the proof:

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I stumbled across this site while looking for articles and resources on behalf of a young person who is struggling with gender identity/expressions issues. Having perused the site a bit, I figured why not jump in since, well, it's too dang hot to go outside! Oh, and I think there are a few folks hanging out here who see themselves and the world much like I do; finding more of your tribe is always something to celebrate, eh? In some ways I feel like I hit the lottery when reading some of these threads as I was essentially raised in a gender neutral family, meaning I was free to be me from the first breathe. Thankfully, I've never been "in the closet" about my sexual orientation either. It's always been society's struggle with trying to define or box me in some way, which is likely why I'm allergic to labels and boxes and anything that is confining. Any label, name, etc., doesn't really allow for growth or change, plus they are really just a comparison to someone or something else... and I don't live by comparison. That being said, I live my life first and foremost with respect. If someone wants to ID a certain way and use specific terms, I'll most certainly use the language they prefer and celebrate that with them. I do a significant amount of volunteering and facilitating within the adult and youth GLBTQQIA community and have an enormously diverse group of friends, but I think having a relatively anonymous place here on-line does offer a different kind of support & education. Looking forward to being a part of a safe, respectful space here.... and cooler weather!

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Old 09-03-2010, 02:07 AM   #2
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Interesting that the system allows me to quote myself. Can someone tell me how to edit your own post while the grammar police are still sleeping?? I'm not seeing such an option. Thanks...
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Old 09-03-2010, 05:23 AM   #3
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I think you can edit your own posts immediately after posting...but the option goes away after a bit.
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Old 09-03-2010, 06:58 AM   #8
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Welcome! And I hope this home helps you with a little bit of anything!!!!

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Old 09-03-2010, 08:19 AM   #9
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that was an excellent intro!
i agree 110% about the anonymity of a forum such as this... i can see from the opener that you will be a wonderful addition to the rank and file...
looking forward to hearing your give and take on things around these parts...

greetings from the far left of the right coast...
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Old 09-03-2010, 08:25 AM   #10
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i think many of us understand the "finding tribe" feeling!

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Old 09-03-2010, 09:27 AM   #11
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Old 09-03-2010, 11:35 AM   #12
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Welcome to the Planet!Welcome to land of great friends, chosen family and good times! I lived in AZ for a while, and can't wait to visit...in the winter! Be careful in the heat!
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Old 09-08-2010, 12:00 AM   #14
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Thanks for all the kind welcomes... obvious there are a bunch of cool people here!
Anyone coming to or passing through Phx give me a shout...

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CTW, avoid the cool people. You might melt them with your hotness.

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